hey i'm T.J. i'm 5'9 pretty well in shape and take care of myself. i work for the city at the port authority. so basically i work alot and when i go out i like to have a good time. and it's pretty difficult to find a nice woman in a bar. I'm pretty laid back and like to have a good time. If you like any of these qualities then please feel free to send me a message.

well lets see for a first date. I would say maybe meet for a cup of cofee, or maybe drinks. Kind of a more quiet envirement so we could talk and get to know eachother, feel eachother out. And if all goes well, then maybe dinner and take it from there