You have to have passion but you need to be a certain kind of individual to even understand the meaning of the word. If you are, you're lucky and you also know you'll never be satisfied... ever. There is no satisfaction and that's what makes life exciting, fun and new. We will always want. Being comfortable should be uncomfortable. Dream, run, chase... always. Never catch. Chase beautiful things and understand that that precise ability is what brings contentment. The ability to want and achieve and to do it all over again.

My personality is a little wild and scatter brained but I know I have to control my self to make my self productive. I can get a little crazy with my passions and be a little too much of a free spirit... lol but at least I can see that. I love singing, it is an outlet and a stress reliever. I sing constantly, grew up doing it in church and I love music. Absolutely beautiful.

Uh, I hate socks, peas, olives, feet and being hot. I like chocolate, sleeping, cuddling, the beach, spicey food, heels, being sexalicious, lol and lots of other random nonsense. I'm not a ****, but I may have under lying **** like tendencies. lol I LOVE tomatoes and I hate snakes more than anything else in existence. I can't live on the same street with someone that owns one. Ewww.


So, I'm 23, living in Nova Scotia. Have lived here all of my life but love traveling. Haven't done a WHOLE lot, but I've been to 8 states. I'd love to go to Europe and plan to.I don't like boredom or irrational negativity. I believe in having a balance in your life of everything. Sincerity, integrity and honesty - truly, are very important to me. Those things can get you through life. I love to have a good time, being totally random, adventerous and spontaneous. I believe in valuing the important things - family, friends, time, and prioritizing. Sometimes you just gotta let go and let life be life - let it do it's amazing thing. Never take anything for granted, even though we all do sometimes. Life is soooo short, and it's unfortunate. In my eyes anyway. Some people would rather it just be over, but if I had it my way we'd live forever... the world isn't a perfect place and that's what makes it beautiful.

I appreciate weird things, like good grammar. First of all, online your impression is entirely made up of what someone READS, so you should probably take the time to form full sentences. lol
Love a guy with a creative mind. I tend to like guys that are musically inclined because sometimes they end up being creative, imaginative and passionate and that is very sexy. Sometimes you meet guys that are analytical and deep in thought even when they're doing casual, daily things. People that continually look beyond what's really happening, interest me, because it's similar to how I am. I don't like people that are so lost in their own thoughts and obsessed with one particular thing so much they don't live the other parts of their lives out. Though I don't think there's anything wrong with investment and passion. In fact, it's a staple. When it comes to physical attraction, people are touchy because we're all insecure to some degree, so people are afraid of supercial-ism? lol yeah, or they embrace it - seemingly - also a form of fear and insecurity. But, really, physical attraction is just another dynamic to any type of relationship and it's gotta be there to make things flow. Sometimes, yes, love for one's personality can blind and make someone appear more attractive, but whatever - that's cool too. As long as you're satisfied with that person, doesn't matter how it happens or why. As long as you can say, ha, yeah that feeling of wondering if I'm missing something else out there, disappears when I'm with you - you're where you should be.

So, men who appreciate the value of humanity in a woman, in a person, the fact that I'm real, apply within. :P I can't and will not say I've never played a game, likely not meaning to, but I'm human, I'm growing and changing and I make mistakes. But I have a splendid ability to open up to anyone who wants to see inside and make a full out effort to show you what is truly there. I'm only 23, so in wisdom I know a lot of me doesn't fully know what's inside, but I'm fully prepared to explore it with anybody kind enough to want to learn along side of me. I appreciate honesty, not perfection. Brokenness makes things spicy and beautiful, charming and intriguing. Not games, but honesty that you're a human, don't have it all together - but are happy to be alive.

So... hmm... lighter side... I like piercings and tattoos, though I don't have any tattoos. Just my ears and my lip. lol I like road trips, traveling and unplanned adventure. I like 'long walks on..' lol no, actually I hate long walks because I'm usually wearing heels lol... but I like camping, and no, I won't wear heels camping but I will find some way to make my self look like a woman... lol.
I love my friends, good times and memories I can't clearly remember. :P I love people who appreciate good times, love to laugh, really though. Love sunny days, the beach, swimming, trails, the woods, guitar, singing, writing.
I love documentaries, reading and learning. Intelligence is very attractive and education is a blessing to have in this country. A lot of us forget what a small percentage of us actually live the way we do in North America... which helps us to become wrapped up in our small little worlds and self absorbed. I won't lie, it happens, it's not easy to stop it. But, being aware and making an effort to stay in touch with your humanity helps. Thanks for taking the time to read this novel.


"The Only Woman"

The only woman who is able to be
is she who knows that the dawn of her life
begins now

She who marks out her own domain
not with tears but arrows

who resorts to no prayers
who states opinions and lifts her head and moves
her body
and is tender without shame and tough without
hatred

She who has unlearned the alphabet of obedience
and walks erect
who does not fear solitude because she has always
been solitary
she who forgoes grotesque howls of violence
uttering them rather with grace
she who frees herself in bounteous love
she who loves

The only woman who can be one
is she who sadly and simply decides on her own
to emerge from her past history.

Anything works really. If it's warm out, I prefer a relaxed environment during the evening. Getting together with a group of friends the first time kind of helps you ease into the situation. If not, I like making a fire on the beach and talking. Somewhere you can actually hear each other. NOT a loud, obnoxious bar. lol Bleh! :)