Don't let my piercings scare you I am actually a silly intellectual who is very into fitness. I am looking for a women who shares these qualities and also knows how to be goofy, make me laugh, and have fun. I am a good listener and conversationalist. I'm really creative and love doing anything that involves music and writing. I am extremely confident perhaps a bit co*ky and am attracted to that in women as well.

***I am not perfect, however I am honest and my pictures show the good, the bad, and the ugly OR maybe the ugly, ugly and the ugly (You Decide)... Um, I seem to be getting off topic... Oh yeah, my point was I expect the same pic layout and honesty in return and I ONLY want to meet women who put fitness at the top of their priorities in life (as i do), OR someone so intriguing I cant resist***

A first date should be one of simple detail with the opportunity for good conversation... i.e. we both drive separately and meet in a quiet location (Starbucks perhaps) where we could have a stimulating conversation and see where it goes from there.

A perfect date starts by me picking her up at her house where she will be READY and wearing a slinky, but classy black dress. She will open the door and I will gasp at how beautiful she looks! We will embrace with a hug, ill grab her hand and swiftly bring her to my car where I will of course I have the door open and waiting. When she sits down, she will breifly look up and smile, as will i but only for a second as I gently close the door. I will walk around the back of the car and she will turn and watch. As I near the drivers side door she will lean over and attempt to open my door but I will say "thats ok".

Its ~6pm and the sun is going down so I would make sure whatever lounge or resturant we are headed to is west of her house so that we have a minute to share one of my favorite things (sun set) without her ever even knowing we just shared that moment.

We will arrive at a small but elegant Italian resturant where they have a great patio and the sunset is still visible. The valet will open our doors but I will whip around the car to grab her hand as she gets out of the car. I woud then gently place my hand on her mid back and escort her to the resturant. Perhaps trying to steal a little kiss at this point.

I will pull out her chair and thank the host and proceed to order a bottle of wine (no im not a conosour but there is nothing better than sipping a glass of wine on a patio as the sun sets) Merlot perhaps... just right.

The rest of our time at the resturant will be filled with conversation and laughter, I want to learn about her and hope she wants to know more about me. Some light hand holding or an intimate toast would be the perfect signal that she is interested. Perhaps a light peck but really not necessary. When the bill comes SHE goes for her wallet wanting to pay, i will not let her of course, I will simply say this is my gift to you and if you would like to recriprocate sometime that would be nice.

--OK SO I guess I am really cheeezeee but its from the heart and all I am going to say right now-- I have been on a lot of dates and none of them have gone like this so when one does I will write about the rest of the night :)

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