I am just a relatively normal girl, looking for a guy who likes to laugh, be spontaneous, take a chance in life, but at the same time maintains some kind of personal goals for himself. I guess I am just kind of looking for a good man with a bit of an edge. I emphasis the spontaneous, edgy trait as being of importance because I am kind of a go with the flow, decide on the whim kind of girl, and I have found that it takes a certain kind of guy to be able to appreciate that. I love going out, making people laugh, being goofy, and trying new things, but at the same time I am a little old fashioned. I mean.... I guess... I just value men in my life that show me respect and don't make assumptions about how I should and what I should do in life or in a particular moment. I believe that there is no standard way to act in life, you just have to go with your gut. So if the man I met shared that philosophy that would be fabulous.. and well... convenient, cause we would hardly bicker. I am grown and I am looking for a man who is grown as well... there is nothing I despise more than unnessicary drama, or attention seekers... so if you fit that description you need not apply.lol. don't care much about money or glitz, but I am tired of men who depend on me to fit a mother type roll.... or in other words I guess I am just looking for an equal. Not a lot to ask right? lol. All in all I love to travel, meeting new people, watching movies, walking along lake michigan, and trying new things. If your out there and find any of these traits similar to your own I would love to hear from ya!