I’m one of the good guys. I know it sounds skeptical, but it's true. I am a good guy, and I have good guy scars to prove it!! :) haha! As mushy as it is to say, I am a big fan of true Love. You know, the kind that actually means something. I have my own definitions of love, so if you're interested in knowing then we can talk about that later.

Alright, so what can I tell you about me? Well, my love language is “quality time”, so I really enjoy doing things together. My hobbies are reading, watching movies (would love to feel you lay against my chest while doing this!!), listening to music, and writing. I'm into a few video games (super-sexy if you are too, don’t know why), and I like to watch the Lakers, the Raiders, and Auburn football. I'm tryin to hang in there with Heroes, and recently I've gotten into the whole "So You Think You Can Dance" thing (but part of that is because my adorable daughter tries to copy the moves and it cracks me up. Cutest. Thing. Ever.) Scrubs and Family Guy are pretty good shows, too.

Let’s see, I like to go out some times, mainly eating out, but I’m coming out of a long relationship that pretty much kept me inside, so I'm open to lots of new things. I'm not that big of a "booty-shaking" clubber, but chill jazz spots, and places where live music is playing is good! I like to go plays, musicals, movies, parks, some concerts, and insert some of your ideas here…. In fact, I have a rather lofty goal of eating at every restaurant in Dallas at least once…unachievable I know. :)

I am a Christian, and I do write Christian non-fiction as a hobby, and I also do some teaching from time to time. Would love someone to bat ideas around.

When it comes to relationships, all I can say is, infidelity is a bleepity-bleepity-grr-grr! Loyalty is a fleeting commodity these days, it seems, so if you are going to contact me (after I've probably emailed you, cause that's how things are, I guess) then please be a person of integrity and loyalty. Loyalty is priority for my next venture. Ok, enough about that. I am a relationship guy thru and thru. I hear that I am a great listener by female friends and confidants, and that most people feel safe when they talk to me. I believe all drama is unnecessary and avoidable… but accept that it is apart of life, so whatever.

In the end, I want a woman who will appreciate my talents and potential, be supportive in the quest to reaching that potential, and who will not be afraid to tell me what is necessary for my own good, in a tactful way. I don’t need a mom, I need a friend… a companion… a partner… a lover!

I like jellybeans and strawberry shortcake (mmm!)…. Ooh! And chips and salsa! I like rainy nights with my baby next to me… I love to kiss and cuddle (again, mushy… man card slipping away as we speak), and at the same time I would love deep, engaging conversation about subjects PG-13 and up! I’m a libra, a bit analytical (ok, more than “a bit”) and I love my kids!

I am worth getting to know, even if we end up keeping at a friend level. So I hope I hear from you ladies. I can’t wait!

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Hmm, I like to start off a little slow on the first date. I have a few favorite places that I like to go to and sort of relax (ice cream shops, coffee, this really cool fountain with time water and ultra-cool lights) so maybe we'd check out one of those. Or whatever, but I'd like a chance to talk and get to know you... if it all goes well, then we'd kick in first-date.phase-two