I think this is something that needs to be communicated via email or over dinner. I'm self sufficient, have direction, an excellent job, and know where I am going in life. I do know what I want in a women. The main thing I look for in a lady is a good sense of self. If you don't know who you are, or where you are going in life we probably will not hit it off, also I don't really mesh with stuffy people ; )~

We can figure this out later....