Looking for my best friend FIRST AND FOREMOST--to have FUN and laugh with. Someone who is responsible, drama-free, honest, LOYAL, direct (with class, not brass), doesn't play mind games, and is sincere about looking for a relationship and not afraid to grab it once you find it. Sincerity and honesty is important to me most of all. Don't say one thing when you mean another. And don't be insecure...go for it! You only live once.
I have many goals and am looking for someone who understands that. I'm down to earth, blunt, and love to laugh and make others laugh too (to be with me....you MUST have a sense of humor). I work hard, laugh hard, play hard, and love much. Pretty happy with who I am. I'm looking for someone who not only enjoys the same things as I do, but who can have fun and enjoy life with me--no matter what is thrown our way...even if we're lost, don't know anybody, and are crazy mad....turn it into a laugh!!
I have solid friends who I enjoy hanging with -- we spend most of the time laughing (usually until it hurts). I prefer small gatherings, bbq's or bonfires over crowded parties or the bar scene, but I enjoy shakin' my derrier, an occasional comedy club, or watching a Vikes game, too. I love shooting pool, dive bars, country music, and slow dancing being held close. Of course, I want someone to treat me like there's no other in the world for them (within reason).
Looks and hot bodies are nice, AND THERE HAS TO BE CHEMISTRY. But, your intellect and personality are the traits that will keep me sizzling. Remember, the brain is the biggest erogenous zone. And please have manners and basic English skills--in other words please know how to spell, don't try to use words you aren't sure of the meaning, and don't think it's funny to call women ugly names or talk down to people. (A joke is one thing...a way of life is completely different.) I dig sarcasm, but won't tolerate racism.
And I know this sounds mean and maybe hypocritical since I'm not a perfect 10 either, but I am not attracted to grossly obese men (like if you're 350 pounds and 5'9). I like meat on the bones, but not 150 pounds overweight. I don't work out several times a week, but do when I'm able to. I walk every day. I keep active, I'm not a couch potato (unless I'm sick), and I love to keep my brain happy.
My perfect match will be gainfully employed or have an income (self-supporting in other words), love to laugh, is honest, intelligent, and not afraid to try new things. He likes fishing, hunting and is outdoorsy. I'm not one of those women who will tell you "NO" when it comes to doing your guy thing on the weekends. But, I do enjoy fishing and 4-wheeling, horseback riding, walks, going to the cabin, and road trips. He's not afraid to be silly; enjoys doing spur of the moment things. Someone who wants to take me 4-wheeling, fishing, camping, confide in, laugh with until we cry, wrestle with, be MYSELF with. Can be happy snuggling, watching movies or our favorite t.v. sitcom as much as going out for a hot date, shooting pool, whatever. Variety is good!
You need to know that I'm extremely honest, good-hearted, kind, caring, and very empathetic and compassionate. I love my kids and my dogs. And family is very important to me. You will always be my main focus, but keep in mind that has to have a healthy balance with the rest of life, too. You can't honestly expect to meet someone and have them drop everything in their life to spend time with you 24/7. Life doesn't work that way. Not when you're a parent and you work for a living, have family, friends, and animals. HOWEVER, I will make sure you feel important and loved. And that doesn't mean if we're crazy in love we can't text 100 times a day or talk on break or whatever. It just means please don't suffocate me, stalk me, or be crazy.
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