UPDATED 11/12/09
I'm originally from Nebraska. I lived in Montana for over 10 years, loved it there, except winters. Moved to PA 10 years ago, hate the humidity.

I spent my 20's sowing my oats (and having a good time at it). Of course, there are those few occasions I would rather forget. I started a family in my 30's and now in my mid 40's I'm going to be single again. Where do you go from there? You already sowed you oats and even though it was fun there is no way I could even keep up with myself back then and I'm not sure I would even want to.

Now I don't want you to run off scared when you read this. It doesn't mean I'm going push someone or rush into marriage. but I loved being married. I love knowing there is someone there, maybe I loved the "family" part of it. I'm not sure. You don't have the games you have while dating. You are yourself.

Dating is fun though! It does take time before you get past the small games you play your first few dates (but sometimes that's the best part)and even longer to get to that comfortable place. Some of the lines & lies you hear are amazing.

One of my biggest pet peeves is lying. I hate being lied to so if you like to tell white lies or try to get one over another person please don't waste your time emailing me. It won't work out.

I would like to find an honest man who is compassionate and not afraid to show it. I want someone who is able to talk about himself & his feelings.

Forearms are a big turn on for me. Don't ask me why, I don't know but I love forearms.

I listen to 80's rock. Enjoy watching movies especially horror. I have a craft room and do all sorts of crafts (paper crafts, crochet). I've been doing my genealogy which has been really interesting. I would love to be able to share this hobby with someone.

I have a beautiful 12 year old daughter. She is the love of my life. She has a developmental disability and comes first in my life.

I also have a rottweiler who thinks she is a lap dog. She is a pure breed & I'm surprised how many people ask what breed. I think it's because she doesn't behave as many would expect a rottweiler should.

Please say hi if you are interested.

I would want to go some place public and have a drink/coffee or something. Talk and get to know you and you me. Then take it from there.