OK I hate to describe myself, I mean really. Well here goes...

I am a down to earth woman who is a little BLUNT at times, I guess it’s because I am allergic to bull.... That may be a little to offensive for some of you and it might not be. But I have to keep it honest as possible. With that said, If I give you a compliment, its ok if you don't respond back. But don't be scared to say thank you. I know some men might get scared,specially if it's a black woman giving a compliment to another race. LOL, that makes smile everytime. LETS GET OVER THE RACE FACTOR PEOPLE. IT'S 2009 NOT 1850. SO maybe that should answer some of you all questions when you look at my profile.

I am caring person who will give you my last and treat the man of my dreams with the respect he sooo much deserves, one day. I love to joke and have a good time, so IF You ARE LOOKING FOR A FEMALE WHO ACT LIKE SHE IS A DIME AROUND SOCIAL GATHERINGS AND NOT FUNNY OR OPTIMISTIC ABOUT OTHER'S BELIEFS AND FEELINGS, then maybe you should look somewhere else. If you are looking at just my pretty face, then that kind of SUCKS because you are missing out on one INTELLIGENT SISTA, LOL but i am serious. I am looking for new FRIENDS and not a HUSBAND up here OR to have SEX with. I don't know what the future holds, but right now being in a relationship for me would not be feasible at this time, Like I said, WE DON'T KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS.

As far as my goals, I think that I am doing an awesome job right now. I mean being a single parent. Working full-time and working on my Master's is what I am proud of at the moment. My personal goal is seeing my son graduating from high school and going to college!!!!!!yeppie, I hope that happens....anyway
What makes me unique, well let’s just say you would have to answer that question for yourself, I mean to me it would be, being me.

I love REGGAE and 90's music; I am a big Lauren Hill and India Arie fan. Hip Hop is ok but I don’t listen to it really like that.

My first date well LET ME CLEAR THIS UP, IT WILL NOT BE AT YOUR HOUSE...I mean come on guys, please make me feel comfortable. I don’t care where the first date is, as long it’s a place where we can talk and get to know each other. Oh and yes, I will eat dinner because I am not a shy woman to say "no I’m not hungry". When you know goodness well that the woman just doesn’t want to eat around the guy she is with, lol. Don’t LOL men because some of you all do it too...hehe