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About Me
First off I think I'm very different from most men, well even most people for that matter. I just tend to look at things very differently. In alot of ways I'm very old fashioned and respect is important to me. However, I can be very tough as well and I don't take any grief from anyone. I'd die on the hill I stand on in an instant and without even giving it a second thought for what I believe in. One thing I'm not is a sell out and I'd much rather go down fighting.
I'm also sensitive, sensual, and very passionate. I also make it a point to be genuine and down to earth. I love the holidays, especially Halloween and Christmas. Family is also very important to me, and I have friends that are family to me as well. I try to be a gentleman, I think that's important, especially considering how rude and unsympathetic men are towards women's feelings these days.
I try to be a good man in life and I try to kick back and enjoy life. I like to have a good time but I'm very responsible about it. I believe in god, but I believe in god for me and not for what someone else tries to tell me that I need to believe. I have a brain and I like to use it. I follow my heart in life and do what I feel is right. If you can't be true to your own heart what can you be true to? I love to laugh, carry on, and have a good time, but I'm always responsible about it. I like to share a good drink with friends and those close to my heart and paint the town red. Life is short and I want to be as happy as I possibly can.
I'm an incredible romantic. I've actually done serenades before too. I want someday to be in love again someday that I can do that sort of thing again. I'm into giving a lady roses to show her appreciation, even writing romantic poetry for her, and doing other romantic things and I'll just leave it at that for now. I think that being romantic is the ultimate expression of love.
I'm also someone that I think I'm very tough. I don't support the whole gay movement at all. My values are important to me. I'm not hateful mind you, but I despise the entire movement for many reasons, all of which are my own opinions and beliefs. I don't support it, I won't support it, and won't be involved in a relationship with anyone that does, even if the door swings both ways. Thanks but no thanks. I'm not that kind of guy and don't want anything to do with it... not even remotely. It's a huge turnoff to me. The same with tattoos and body piercings. I just like to try to be a bit classy and look for the same in someone that I want to be with.
I know what I like. I'm the kind of guy that I like a girl that's romantic, affectionate, tender, and likes to please. I hate being ignored. That's a quick way to lose me every time. Same with lying. If I get lied to even once I walk. I've met alot of selfish and self centered women in my life yet I remain a hopeful romantic and an optimist. I know I just haven't found the right one yet. I've also met alot of women that try to tell me what I like. Another quick way to lose me. I already know what I like and as I said before, I'm not selling myself out. Thanks, but no thanks. I'd rather be alone then be with someone that's not what I want or would just ignore what I want.
I know I have alot to give someone. I have a sense of morals and values and that's important to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm no prude either, and I tend to make fun of alot of things, although I don't think I'm sarcastic. I do it all in good fun. Which is part of the reason I love Heavy Metal music so much. It's so full of passion and energy which is me to the T. While I value morals and what not and I believe in god, I've been known to have a rather raunchy sense of humor. Hey, I'm being honest here! I think that's important. No sense in telling a lie, lies are always found out, and they do nothing but cause pain and hurt others. I'm the guy that I make the florists dethorn the roses when I give them to a girl, and if they don't do it, I do it myself because I'd feel guilty if she got hurt from something meant to be so beautiful and special.
Looks are nice and all but they aren't the be all and end all. I don't care how beautiful a girl thinks she may be, I'll walk and not even give it a passing thought if she's got a black heart. Don't get me wrong, I think a woman should aspire to look as beautiful as she can, take care of herself, dress sexy, and wear makeup. I really don't understand how some people can get out of shape or look like a slob and just not care at all. I've been crippled twice in my life and was told by doctors and trainers both I'd never be normal. Both times I had no one but myself and both times I proved everyone wrong. I can do anything that I've ever done, and now even more so then most people can do as I train like a professional athlete.
As far as the looks thing goes, I'll finish it up by saying this. A plain girl can work out and get in shape, dress sexy, wear makeup, and do all those sensual, erotic, and passionate things that men dream of. A woman with an ugly heart however, is not something you can change, no matter how beautiful she may be. The most important thing to me is a girls personality. Looks are nice and all, but what the most important thing to me is being able to talk to someone special. Someone you can go through life with and share your hopes, dreams, and fears with. That's what I want.
I'm a complex guy I guess, but I try to live as simply as I can. To sum up my name, I'm a good guy and I do believe in chivalry with all my heart, but I'm also insanely passionate and I have this wild streak in me. I'm dominant by nature and often wind up the leader, even in those occasions I don't want to be the leader, as leading is just my nature. Anyways, I think you get the point. I'm the good guy that loves to have a good time. I think you can even see it in how I dress. Their is that hint of style in everything that I do. It often gets me in trouble too hahaha, but I don't mind really. Sides a little bit of the right kind of trouble is never too bad hahaha.
I'm an ex professional wrestler, which I also worked in the corporate offices as the President. I used to sing in Heavy Metal bands, I'm a writer, I used to be a nanny too to two little girls, and I'm in the process of starting up my own game design and entertainment company that's got a humanitarian bend to it. These sites always feel awkward to me because they just seem so impersonal, and I'm a very social person. I love meeting people and making new friends regardless of age. If you'd like to talk and get to know me better feel free to drop me a line. I promise I don't bite... much. Hahaha.
First Date
This question is totally unfair! Hahaha. It depends on the girl really and what she likes. I might be inclined to do something she likes and romanticize it. On a date I usually bring a single long stemmed red rose devoid of thorns, and if it's a special occasion, depending on the plans I'd probably be inclined to give a dozen. Although I've been known to hide multiple single roses throughout a night and give the girl a few here or there depending on the situation.
I did that once picking up someone I was seeing at work and then setup a candle lit dinner with ballads playing softly in the background and had another long stemmed red rose on the table waiting for her later. I might say lets go out to dinner, dancing, a night out on the town, and then some quiet time home alone. It all really depends. Every woman and every situation is different. It could be something simple to say dinner and a movie. But I like to talk to a girl and find out what she's interested in first and then discuss it with her and go from there. Makes the time spent all the more special that way, and I like to think of any time I spend with a lady as a time that's special.
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