I am looking for someone that can be themselves and not feel they need to change for someone or be someone their not. If you have hobbies don’t stop it for me. There are things two people like to do together and some they do apart. When the day is over, home is where the heart is. I would love to find a woman that loves to play music or sing but I may be dreaming. Hey I know a lot of rocking chick songs to now and trust me nobody can even consider hitting Journey songs on the vocals anymore which sucks but I know some girls can. I love a gal that has no problems expressing themselves, If you want to go out looking like a groupie then right-on as long as your not one. I find it can be sexy when the occasion is appropriate. First off I don't own anyone but I would like to hold your heart and know it is just as important for you to have an identity as it is for me. I am not looking to change anyone just build a relationship together. By choice, I have not dated anyone serious since 2005 and am not into fast flings so I don't anticipate getting a ton of replies back since I am trying to find someone that still has good morals, loves to play or sing Rock N Roll, is very comfortable with themselves and dresses sexy at times, a smoker OMG imagine that, has their own hobbies and loves animals. This might be asking too much so we will see. I am who I am and life is too short to try to live it for someone else. I do take care of my responsibilities though and am not looking for a Mother figure to do things for me.

Wing it like everyone else does, I only make agendas at work not on dates. Oh yeah and I am not just looking for sex. I could get that anywhere as easy as it is these days but I might as well be playing Russian roulette if that were the case with all that is floating around out there. I am looking for a challenge, a friend, and then a steady partner kind of in that order. Trust me sex is very important but not just something you do with anyone after a few drinks or a dinner. My belief is you have to know the person well and then get your freak on and it doesn't have to just be in the bedroom either!