I love playing poker and basketball whenever I can. I also love swimming, watching a good movie or going out to a good restaurant. I want to help people and am working towards that, including helping my self. I started a weight loss blog on youtube some years ago and since have lost almost 200 lbs and inspired a few people along the way. If you want to cheat and see me speaking before I even see you, you can watch them at youtube.com/losetogain . I think you can get a better sense of who I am through that.

I am a jokester. My sense of humor can't really be explained but I always got jokes. Everyone around me is always laughing. So I hope you like to laugh and I hope you have a good sense of humor. I am shy at first, depending on the person. If I feel comfortable with you, i'll open right up. I am very laid back and try not to let smaller things bother me. If I can laugh about it, I will. Also, you'll know I'm comfortable when I start singing. I love to sing and do it constantly.

I have FOUR animals now. My boy Max who I have had for 10 years. My new little Tsu tzu pup named Dexter, who is only 5 months. A very disgruntled large cat who I fear, named Kaylee. And finally, a ball of fluff that I barely see, named Lacy. So obviously, you have to be ok with animals.

Not really looking for a girlfriend at the moment. I need work on myself, before I have anything to offer someone else. I am looking for a friend, though. Most of the time, when a guy says that, he means a friend with benefits. That is not what I mean. Unless the benefits include pizza, which we all know is the best.

Depends on who it's with. Something we'll both enjoy that's low stress and high fun, while still getting to know each other. If it was solely up to me, probably something unconventional (although I love the conventional, too) where we could both feel comfortable and be ourselves.