To my friends here, a BIG THANK YOU. For being here with me through thick and thin. For being honest and open. For never giving up. For making me happy.
I could go on but they all know by now.
Love you all loads.

To answer a common issue in messages i get of 'Theres no one on here for me' well ladies there is so long as the word 'Perfect' is not part of your wants as no one will be that.
Think about these few points(for the genuine at heart actually looking for someone to share their life only).

Looks are a good start but will change for both of you with or without surgery LOL. Yes i too have been guilty of the above, and i'm not ashamed to admit it.

If your not going to change who you are then accept the other person as they are. We all have opinions and if unagreed then leave it, smile after a brief sulk and give each other a kiss.

Discuss all the important things before you meet. A common mistake for which i'm just as guilty.

If you find someone good then try and keep that good thing going as best you can as this site may seem like you'll find better but they are still people with issues good and bad.
If you let someone good go by mistake then looking at their profile everyday won't help, you need to send that person a message and try to rebuild. He may be a bit miffed, but thats just men for you Stick with it as a good cuddle is priceless.

Try to accept that you will argue at some point which is normal, so spitting your dummy out and moving on will not work as the next person will eventually argue as well. (never accept anyone who swears at you or threatens violence no matter how good they were beforehand).

We all like a happy medium but if you want to climb a mountain and he won't its no excuse to fob that person off as you will find that there will be things he does that you won't want to do. Look at the bigger picture.

Met more than a handfull of people on this site?
Then the word 'Player' will pop up 1st before unsatisfied.
We all prejudge too quickly without realising that sometimes we are practically in the same boat. So don't be ashamed to go back to someone who you binned 'unecessarily' as it could be the best thing to show that you were wrong for not trying to make it work.
Going on and on for months and years will eventually be wearing.

A good friend wrote this last bit so i'm adding it here to round things off nicely:
"The grass may appear greener over there, but it's just as hard to mow"

Now after all that i wish you all happy fishing

Been there, done that, laughed, wondered, been horrified LOL, walked away but not always for the best reason, smiled.