You put your right hand in,
You put your right hand out,
You put your right hand in,
And you shake it all about,

You do the hokey pokey
and you turn yourself around
That what it's all about.

It may have taken me some time, but now that I'm in my fifty's I'm finally 'gettin' what it's all about. Nope, it's not quite as simple as it was when we sung 'The Hokey Pokey,' in fact, life can be downright challenging and complicated, but sometimes, the simple things have the most value.

I'm looking for someone who is passionate about life, someone who has the ability to embrace everything in life. I'm looking for a totally mind-blowing, mind-boggling, intense and intimate connection with someone. Yeah, it would be nice to have someone to split my AARP and Costco memberships with....but I was kinda hoping for even more than that. A truly serious WOW, on all levels. We can start by singing 'The Hokey Pokey' and then we could....

It seems to me that if we meet 'just for coffee' we may have a preconceived mindset in that we're not willing to invest too much time. The end result, our potential relationship is in jeopardy prior to it even starting. So, yes, I prefer meeting for lunch, dinner, drinks/appetizers, or something off the wall creative, so that I have the chance to get to know my potential BF.