Okay so silly me.. this place is like the wild wild west... OMG!! Guys really I so wanna chat and hopefully meet ya.. but don't offer to send me any of "those pic's" I prefer up close and personal LOL!!! Seriously, please post a recent picture of yourself and just be the sweet, smart guy that I still believe is out there.

Anway, I really love the outdoors.. and although I'm a redhead - still have to be around the water so I do the sunscreen thingie LOL!

I have a big involved family lots of friends, but still haven't found that special guy. I do belive he's out there, so have held out rather then been involved and unhappy.. what could be worse then in a relationship and still feel like you're alone.

I have eclectic tastes in music.. like anything except rap and really twangy country... rock, alternative are particular fav's. Kings of Leon.. baby!!!

I am direct but try never to be unkind.. but straightforward for sure... I am sorta sarcastic.. but its more funny irony. Look I grew up with brothers so I get the boyz bathroom humor and can take some teasing because you know I'll be dishing it right back at ya. :)

Gonna be straight up.. because I am that in real life... and we all know that online and real life are like something for mythbusters... Okay.. so I post I'm 39 but that is not my chronological age. I post all current pics and never agree to meet anyone without "comimg clean' so to speak. I simply post it because of a life circumstance that lucky me had sorta a "do over"... I've been told I look younger, and so I just simply let people think what they want to - ya know they will do it any way. I have no intention of being false nor would I want anyone to contact me who is not who they say they are either "so them's the facts" so to speak and if you're not faint of heart and like to be challenged then we just might click. If not then thats all good too, and I will wish you all the very best and sincerely mean it!

First dates.. hummmm it depends on a lot of things...anything from a drink, maybe coffee someplace we can talk and interact. This way we can cut it short if necessary or hopefully extend it..