I have put friends as it seems the best choice for now ...

WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR...

one night stands, webcam fun, cyber sex, wear pyjamas to bed, lie, cheat, sulk, miserable or are moody...Also if you like to fall asleep at 8pm on the sofa, or if you do manage to stay awake past that time and you like to watch re-runs of only home and away or other such programs, its really not my idea of an evening's entertainment, i find it boring...let me just add to the not wanted list ... so if you are married, please don't bother messaging me .. no matter how gorgeous you may well be.. i am NOT interested!!!!

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR...

Honest, loyal, funny, thoughtful, kind, enjoys their life and wants to be happy and hastle free, likes to go out some evenings, picnics in the park, will go to the movies, but is also happy to snuggle up on the sofa with a bottle of wine and a DVD and must be able to make me smile and laugh...and if you can cook too.. hey even better..!!!!!!!!! I want a lady who can stimulate MIND, BODY and SOUL...

REPLIES... As much as i appreciate the fact that people take time to send me messages.. if i don't reply, please don't be offended.. you are either too far away or simply not what i am looking for.. My time on here is very limited i work, train and have a life which take up most of my waking hours.. so if you have sent me a message and i haven't replied... I am sorry and i do wish you the best in your search :)

To avoid stepping on toes with other POF members, the beach might be out of the question ..
Please don't send me MSG's containing your mobile number... Its really not very appealing...If you send me your number and you don't even know my name.. I will assume you have sent it to hundreds of men online... the word desperate comes to mind!!!.. So i don't want or need it... Keep it for someone else who may be grateful for it