Guess it's time to update this thing.

Me:
I'm not 30, but that doesn't mean I'm immature and naive.
I'm not 16, but that doesn't mean I don't know how to have fun.
I don't have the most glamorous, high-paying job, but I love my job, I'm good at it, and it pays the bills.
I don't drive a Lexus, but I love my Mazda, it suits me, and it's paid for.
I may be a single mom, but that doesn't mean I have lost my identity or that my life is lacking in any way.
My situation with my daughter may not be ideal (i.e. she's bi-racial and her father walked out), but that doesn't mean I have to apologize for it or for her, or that she's not the most amazing person ever and the greatest thing to ever happen to me.
I may be kinda geeky, but that doesn't mean that I'm socially awkward and can't have a good time.
I'm not pencil thin (they really should have a "thick" option on body type lol) and my hair isn't always perfect, but that doesn't mean that I don't love myself and that I'm not confident in who I am and the way I look.
I don't go to church every Sunday, but that doesn't mean that I don't have a personal relationship with God, or that I live a life of sin.
I'm not perfect, but that doesn't mean that I don't have a lot to offer to someone.

You:
I don't need a man that looks like Johnny Depp (though, honestly I wouldn't mind having Johnny Depp himself! lol).
I don't need a man that has the money of Donald Trump.
I don't need a man with a body like Vin Diesel.
When it comes to what I want and need...I just need someone who is honest with me. I need someone who doesn't depend on me, but WANTS me to be around. I need a guy who is settled and knows what he wants. I don't need the party boy who is still unsure of himself and what he wants out of life, that drinks every other night and can't ever get home before dawn. I need romance...someone who is sweet and caring. I'm not gonna lie, I wanna be spoiled...not financially, but emotionally. Financially, I can afford to spoil myself if I want to...I need a man for his compassion and understanding. I want that text before he goes to work every morning, just to say good morning. I want that hug that makes me melt and tells me, "I missed you".
As for what my type tends to be, I like the rough exterior...the tattoos, piercings, kinda bigger guys...but all sweet on the inside. That's not to say that I won't think outside the box. I like guys that are hard working and can take care of themselves, not ones that depend upon everyone around them to take care of them and solve all their problems.

So, if any of this sounds good to you, don't be afraid to message me. I'm finally at this point in my life where I feel settled with my family, my job, and my friends...now the only thing that is missing is someone to cuddle with :) Still waiting for Mr. Right....

Something simple and non-committal. Maybe meet for lunch one day, or for coffee one evening.