I've been on and off of dating websites for a little over three years now. Throughout this time I've met some very interesting men (interesting good and interesting bad) and one "Mr. Too Good To Be True" but sadly he did not feel the same about me. And so here I am again, with an open mind and an open heart in hopes of not only finding Mr. Right (for me) but that he will be just as much into me as I am into him.

I'm the girl next door but a little mischievous at times - all in good fun of course. I love life, everything about it and what it has to offer, both good and bad. My experiences have made me who I am today and I have little to no regrets. I've never been one to sit on the sidelines and watch. I want to be in the game loving every minute of it. I'm extremely independent. Some people may consider this a fault but I consider it one of my best assets. I'm energetic, bubbly (I love to laugh & my pics prove it), direct but tactful, flirtatious, charming, creative, very affectionate, intelligent, compulsively neat, ambitious, naturally curious - I love to learn and experience new things, stubborn, sassy at times but all part of my charm, EXTREMELY witty with comebacks - I grew up with mostly boys so I can hang with the best of 'em.

I love the arts, museums, photography, music/concerts, basketball, baseball, volleyball, snow skiing, nature, being outdoors and just being active. Working out and staying active is very important to me. On average I work out 2 hours a day, 5-6 days a week. I'm not a big fan of NASCAR or football. I'll watch a football game on occassion (mostly just to socialize) but think NASCAR is just plain retarded. I just lost points on that one I know but it's all about honesty isn't it?

I don't need a man or a relationship to define me. I know who I am and what I want out of life - most of which I already have. But someone to share that with would be groovy. I'd like nothing more than to meet my best friend, fall in love and start a family. To me developing a strong, solid relationship with that special someone is first and foremost important (before jumping into having children) - so relax boys the pressure is off. But please note if you're only looking for a fling, still suffering from Peter Pan Syndrome (not ready to grow up) or are on the fence about having children - I'm NOT your girl.

Soooo what AM I looking for??? I bring a lot to the table and I'm looking for the same in a partner. I hope to find someone like me (but different if that makes any sense) to enjoy life's simple pleasures and experience new adventures with. My ideal guy would be my equal. He must have a witty sense of humor - sarcasm is a plus, I DON'T WANT MY KIDS TO LOOK LIKE TROLLS SO LOOKS ARE IMPORTANT TO ME but so is personality, sincere, honest, passionate about life and all the opportunities it holds, financially stable/responsible, somewhat athletic - I get antsy and hate to stay still for long periods of time, mentally stimulating, confident but not arrogant, assertive, a great story/joke teller, sociable and enjoys interacting with all walks of life, able to put me in my place when I need to be (I don't mean physically) because I'm feisty and can be a handful at times, non judgmental, ambitious, well educated (after all SMART=SEXY), flirty, a great kisser and last but not least someone who brings out the best in me.

Some of the best dates I've been on included going to a Baysox game and ESPN Zone although I think it was more about the company I was in than the venue. I'm pretty active so sitting for long periods of time makes me crazy. I don't mind quiet nights but I also need social interaction. It just depends on what kind of day I've had or the mood I'm in. I'm flexible for the most part. Spending time with someone I'm completely into is more important to me than what we do (usually).

FYI - I'm not a big fan of boats. I generally spend more time chumming over the side than anything. I was seasick during and 5 days AFTER my most recent cruise - LOL!