I am a fitness enthusiast and competitive volleyball player. Looking for a girl who enjoys staying in shape and looks at fitness as a lifestyle. I don't drink much, and only do the club scene on occasion with friends. Prefer to prepare meals together, watch a movie at home, and call it an early night. I recently relocated to Charlotte to be closer to my children (14 year old daughter, 11 year old daughter, 9 year old son) and am loving every minute of it. I am looking for simple, mutually beneficial relationships that could lead somewhere extremely positive down the road.

I want to be that couple that causes our friends to get in fights on the way home from a night out because they don't have what we have. I want someone to come up to our table on our 10th anniversary and ask if we're on our first date. I want a woman who enjoys having her doors opened for her and who can see both sides of a conversation.I want a woman who wants to walk beside me, no matter what the pace. I want to be with a woman who can't get close enough while laying on the couch or spooning in bed. I want to be in a relationship where the kids (yours, mine, or ours) have to tell us to "get a room" because we'd rather kiss than watch the stupid high school football game. I want a woman that doesn't mind being unselfish in any regard, because she knows that sentiment will be reciprocated. I want a woman that is confident and direct, and that, when I ask what time it is, will simply tell me, and not educate me as to how watches are built. I want a woman that is career minded and can stand on her own two feet. I want a woman that makes all my friends say "Wow, he married up". I want a woman who can enjoy the simpler things in life, like good coffee and a sunrise, rather than driving the latest BMW or Audi. And lastly, I want a woman who understands my favorite quote and doesn't need me to explain:

Do or do not, there is no try. ~ Yoda

Dinner and dancing is always fun. If we can't find some common ground and keep the conversation going at dinner and transfer that into a little fun on the dance floor, we probably aren't for each other.

Coffee is always a good start too.