hi im nick

i love gaming and writing my book and listening to music

im looking forward to pursue a career in public services such as a 911 dispatcher/operator and i aspire to better myself spiritually socially and mentally.

i am very spiritual but not religious if you know what i mean, i believe in god, read the bible took jesus christ as my personal savior but i dont believe some of the things that are made up to look christian like santa clause, the easter bunny and what not. i dont do the whole christmas tree or the lights or the easter egg hunt cause its not recommended in the bible. BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN I WONT EVER HAVE A DINNER WITH YOUR FAMILY ON THOSE TIMES OF YEAR cause connection with family is important even when a spouse is involved and no i am not mormon, or jehova witness, and no i dont believe in the "man has complete control in a relationship either".

i live just outside latrobe and drive to work. i am a firefighter for my hometown, and have been for almost 8 years, although i havent been around the station much due to my work schedule. im am currently single and ready to find true love and actively searching for the right one. i know what i want out of life so if your looking for a man and you want to start a life together, i am the man you are looking for, if you are just looking for a one time thing or a 1 week or 1 month dating experiment i am NOT your man. i dont like to smile on camera lol. i am very open about anything and also very blunt to and im not afraid to say whats on my mind. im a huge [[steeler]] fan i live on my own and its nice living on my own but its better living on your own with special someone to share your life with. i am not a sexaholic so no i dont with sleep everyone, because sex is not a chore or a obsession, it needs to be a [[mutual agreement on both sides]] so yes i have [[morals]] and i know what i want in life, i am a man whos ready to settle down, get married and start a family, i love working on computers and fixing them, i have fixed my own a lot and it saved me tons of money at the local computer shop, its helpful to know the difference between ram cpu and a hard drive, im no mechanic person i dont know a lot about cars but at least i know how to change oil and tires, i love cats, and i wish i had a beagle!! i love to learn and love history, i dont mind trying new things as long as it doesnt involve my untimely death :-p

my birthday is june 15th 1985

my friends are always there for me for when im down i hope you can too if times get tough :)

i am probably one of the few men who dont care how big or small your chest is.

i am looking for someone who can complete me, accept my flaws, love me for who i am and not who i should be someone who wont boss me around tell me what i can and cannot do, im not a big fan of control freaks so im not one myself, i believe relationships require 50/50 when it comes to pulling weight, i think both spouses can work things out peacefully without violent conflict and one should not dominate over the other..

SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY!

please dont contact me if you are too demanding, controlling, live more than 50 miles away from latrobe, if you have kids; sorry i dont mind kids, but I perfer to have my own thank you kindly, if your extremely overweight or obese im sorry i have some cool friends who are overweight but i dont find them attractive and im here looking for mrs. right not friends, although i do make some exceptions depending on what you have in common with me, but sorry for being so honest and blunt but this is a dating site i perfer to fulfill its purpose than to waste time on the life clock. i am not getting any younger so im sorry if that bothers you, if you already been married and are now divorced, sorry i dont need the extra baggage and it goes against my morals and beliefs. im looking for someone who is serious about a LONG TERM relationship

you know i dont know what is with people, they want to look for a serious relationship yet they dont go for it, it dont make sense to me, most women i met on here are self pity drama queens who love to keep you in suspense. just to drive you crazy and make you crack, call me crazy but one woman already ask me "did i drive you nuts yet" i would like to meet a real woman and not some girl with a highschool mentality, someone who is SERIOUS about going out and being part of a dedicated serious relationship with a man who is loyal, caring, and loving.

first depending on who wants to drive her or i, we would go to a dinner at a nice restaurant and get to know each other more, talk about things we have in common, etc. or a walk in a local park and get to know each other there too. i believe the first kiss always defines a relationship. so kissing on the first date is fine by me. but sex is not.