I am an intelligent,attractive, very romantic , black lady. About 5ft.4in. and my build is some larger than average. I am told that I am sexy, voluptuous, and pretty. I am a kind, understanding, compassionate person and I try always to treat others as I wish to be treated. I have a healthy outlook on life, and try to see the cup as half full. I am not looking for a rich man or a star. Just that kind, sweet, understanding man who is also looking for a friend, with the hope that something will develop. I don't care about your race. That is very unimportant to me. I like holding hands, cuddling , soft gentle kisses and warm hugs. Loving and sharing can be wonderful with that special some one. Bad times are not nearly as bad when they are shared with hugs and kisses.

I think a first date should be a time to talk and get to know each other. Both parties need to know if there is chemistry. I think dinner and music would be nice. Maybe a drive in the country, and if we agree, maybe a movie. Usually on a first date, both people are trying to make a good impression, but I feel honesty is very important at this time.