So far this site has shown me nothing to convince me it actually go's anywhere.

I'm going to give you lady's something you aren't accustom to. "HONESTY"!

Fell in love and got married when I was young and vulnerable.
It was 10 blissful years of love and passion (and two kids).
What followed was 3 years of painful heart ach as the affection slowly drained away. Divorce and another couple of years of wallowing in my pathetic self pitty party. Eventually I snapped out of it and got my sorry ass back out in the world. I learned a lot from it.

Then I met my next wife. She was a perfect match in heaven. It was meant to be. Happily ever after was on the horizon. I never had to look again.
In 5 years circumstances caused the bliss to simmer and cool as humdrum grew into unfulfilling resentment. Three years of unsuccessfully trying to find a way to bring the smile back,
divorce and another 3 years of getting over her and moving on. I learned a lot more.

You'd think I'd be jaded by all that, but I'm not. Just a little cautious.

Thrown back into the singles life, I got involved with the dance world.
Turns out, I can dance! Not only that, I'm fun to dance with.
Some of the dance lounges have Karaoke. Turns out I can sing too,
and I'm really good at it.
Soon I was inducted into the "Dancers Hall of Hunk" and quickly rose to the top of the charts.
Needless to say, I did me some dating, and it turns out there's something else I'm really good at! I just don't stop learning.

Trouble is, jealousy in the dance kingdom can quickly turn the play ground into a battlefield. Dating each other not recomended in the dance world.

So this is how my midlife crisis has been going.
I want what every man wants. A beautiful woman who adors me, and wants to spend her life making sweet, passionate love with me.
Let me be me, but not try to own one another.
Believe in me and feel secure that I'm true and honest. Not be overtaken with selfish jealousy.
Someone I can grow old and crotchity and rot away into oblivion with.

I've been to Oz, it was "AWESOME" and I really want to go back.
I want that woman who has stamina and can endure.
Someone who, when I "pour it on" will pour it right back with just as much passion.
Cope with changes without throwing in the towel.
I know it's a tall, seemingly impossible, order. But it's certainly worth it.

So that's who I am.
An adventurous, confused, 53 year old kid, full of passion, talant and experience,
searching for that special Angel that has the strength to reel me in out of the crisis and nestle me into her sweet, loving arms while we decay away together.

I'm not the kind of man that you fall in love with upon sight.
I have to be experienced. (sorry I have only the one, sucky, picture).

I'm throwing my line out there,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,if you're there baby, open your arms.

Naturally I think a dinner is the best ice breaker.
Learn about each other in a safe public place.
Loosen up with a glass of wine and see if there is any "real" chemistry.
Once we feel comfortable with each other, my best arena is the karaoke, dance lounge. I'm not a bar fly, I'm an entertainer. I want to dance with her, and sing for her.
I want to be intoxicated by her welcoming smile.
The better she feels the better I feel.