First if you are too shy or don't like writing the first email make me a favorite I will notice you and acknowledge that even if you don't write me~~Second I will say I answer all my emails even if its just to say a polite no thank you. My mom taught me about courtesy and feelings for others. I wish when you sent an email even if there was no interest at all that the person would recognize how out on a limb sending that email was and respond how they would want their emails handled....Enough said... Third I am looking for someone who is real-not your cookie cutter aspirations of living in a land of no worries but someone that knows there are good days and bad days and can get through them the best they can. Be upfront and all is good but masks and disguises are easily revealed. Meeting people is simple but connecting with them takes effort are you up for the challenge? If so do you still like men, still have a smile on your face and want to see where we could go then who knows.......I am a realist who is looking for someone who is caring, kind and considerate in all aspects of their life....To be in mine I would have to consider is this someone I would want my daughter to meet and if your answer is YES I would like to meet him than I truly hope you take the time to email me. Good luck in this pond its murky sometimes. LOL