Here l am in the big city trying to meet someone special. What a long hard road. You would think that being in the city it would be no problem. Still wondering about that one !!!!!

Right know l am on a healthy eating kick. I have been told by my doctor that l am healthy but l want to make my outside as healthy as my inside. So far things are going great. So that part of my life is coming together.

Know finding a the job l want and enjoy. Right know l work in a spa running the housekeeping department. Which to be honest l feel that l am losing brain cells doing this job everyday. So the next part to get back into hotels. I have been working in hotels for over 16 years. In all sorts of places. 10 yeas of which have been in upper management. So l need to get back into it. I love the stress, l feed off it. So that is a goal that l am also working on. I do have a lead just waiting for it to work out.

Know finding someone to fill in the big empty part of my life. I have been in a few long term relationships. The last one was supposed to be the one that would last but things change, people change, feelings change.

I have been told that l have alot to offer someone, that l am a kind, loving and loyal person. I also have been told that l am a very good lover, that l know and take the time to listen and understand what my partner wants and needs. Also, l love to cook and don't worry about the dishes l find it relaxing to do them.

I am not into head games or labels. It doesn't matter if you are femme or butch or any of those other labels. I am attracted to someone that knows what they want, knows how to love and be loved. Likes animals, likes to try new things, likes to work things out not run from things when times get tough, someone that is real, likes to go out to dinner or stay in and watch a movie.

If any of what l have said rings a bell or makes you go oh just maybe. Drop me a line. Never know what could happen.

For a first date go for coffee, talk, put the cell phones down and listen to each other. Then maybe a walk around the city. What every you feel like doing is cool.