Ok, first things first. Girls, there are actually guys out there who do want to find the one, and are not looking for another piece. It sucks that being a guy, you get that label right away from what other selfish, heartless guys have done. So in that respect, i can honestly, and sincerely say that i am not on this site to get some. I can't tell you how many times this gets brought up. I also think that sex is a powerful thing. It can distory someone, or it can create an amazing bond. I think it destroys people when it is done to just to have fun. Let's be honest....There's emotion wrapped into it. People might think i am gay because i think like this, when actually i am a christian and this is what i believe in. Sorry i actually care about others.....especially my future wife, and not wanting to burden her with baggage. I could talk about this for hours, but i'm not going to be a Debbie downer here.

I'm not going to lie, i love my life. I am a hard worker. I am very determined to reach my goals, and to do that will take hard work. That being said, i have very clear goals, and i will make them happen (Lord willing). I love the country life, and will always be connected to it (farming). I try to stay possitive 100% of the time. I am also honest and caring. I love my jobs...Yes job with an "s". I do work multiple jobs, but all that can be discussed at a later time. It's not that i am trying to keep secrets, it's that i don't think that is very important in a first impression. I feel like sometimes, money might be a determing factor in some relationships. If i even start to see anything like that, I'm gone.

Naturally, beauty is something that everyone wants right? But i have learned over the past few relationships that some of the most beautiful girls have just that to hold on to. What happens when looks fade, and you're in you 60's. If your foundation for love was looks....you're screwed. I have met girls that are really pretty and have an amazing personality. That is what i am looking for. But most importantly, she has to be a christian. God has blessed me with so many blessings, and i know he will bless me with an amazing wife. By the same token, i want to be more than that "amazing guy" that she dreams about. The way this is possible is through talking and getting to know every little thing about her. I am a sucker for dark hair, and tan girls. It's what i am attracted to. I like it when a girl can listen and actually engage in conversations. I also like a girl who is forward. And what i mean by that is that she actually will speak how she feels, and isn't afraid to go up to a perfect stranger and start a conversation. I also love someone who is caring, and can show love to anyone.

I guess you could also say i am a little old fashion when it comes to how a girl should be treated on a date or really in general. No matter if its a date or not, if a girl is with me, it WILL happen that her door gets opened for her. If shes cold, she WILL get my coat no matter how cold i am. If we go out somewhere, i WILL pay for the bill (If she isn't appriciative, and doesn't say thank you....That's a huge strike). When i find a girl i want to be with, i will give my all to make them feel like they are worth more than they have ever felt before. If both people in a relationship do that exact same, then i feel like that would be a solid relationship. A very wise guy once told me when i asked him how he's been married for so long, he said, "You need to put in to the relatioship more than you expect to recieve from the other person"
So anything else that you want to know, just ask.

I like first dates. I like to surprise a girl on a first date, by doing something out of the ordinary, so i can't give that out.... But i will say that i do think it's really important to talk more than anything. Also, what i can say is expect dating the way it should be, such as your door being opened for you, a jacket offered to you if your cold, and a meal paid for.