I am a genuinely happy person who always considers her glass half full. I am starting to worry that there are no self confident men left, but will be fine with friends and trying to keep the faith...lol

I am easy going and spontaneous- willing to make plans at a moments notice. Also, I am pretty independent and used to making up my own rules, it would be nice however to have someone to lean on once in awhile, to grow with and laugh with. I'm not pretentious, prefering to snuggle in front of the fire or enjoy a picnic in the park rather than dine at a 5 star restuarant. I am very affectionate, love kissing and laughing all day and night. I can be a little quick witted/sarcastic, but all in good fun. I tend to have opinions about everything, so you will not have to guess what I'm thinking, but I am NOT judgemental. That is God's work.

Most of all I am looking for a responsible man with self confidence(hard to find). He must not be jealous of an outgoing girlfriend who is comfortable talking to anyone about most anything. I am loyal and trustworthy and am looking for the same. I'm not looking to date forever, but to meet the right guy to be my best friend and lover for life!!

I can be found spending time with friends, my daughter and our puppy! The beach is my favorite place, getting there early with friends, kids, family, boogie boards, favorite towels, lots of snacks and drinks(including beer or wine), sunblock, yada yada yada...bringing lunch or roasting hotdogs and smores in a fire pit and staying late late late! I enjoy reading, positive thinking, and making the world a little better in small ways here and there. I enjoy most music, however I find my station on country most of the time, as other stations play songs I don't want my 9 yo daughter to learn the words to...lol My daughter comes first, I own my own house, but we could possbily relocate for the right man if he loved us both like crazy!!!

As far as goals, I like what I do, it allows me not only reasonably flexible hours, but I also get to help people plan for the future and make their dreams come true.

I am always reading something from mysteries and suspence to novels and biographies. Right now the Percy Jackson series.

Something easy: comedy club, lunch, coffee, a hike, perhaps...no pressure, and preferably doesn't feel like a job interview!! lol After chatting online and the phone we will know the basics, right?