I really enjoy playing my guitar and listening to a wide range of music. I love fitness in all forms. Visual art, movies and a gregarious night out once in awhile are a part of who I am. I'm one who is eclectic and comfortable enough to hang out at a gay bar one night and then a music recital at a friend's church the next morning. One night I'm more bad than your ass can handle, and then next night, too nice not to notice.

If I write you asking to kick it sometime, don't worry about me moving too fast, I am trying find that one who is a perfect match. I'm pretty much just a chill guy looking to actually get to know someone. I am big on personality.

I work for the State and own my own home.
I want somebody who…
Is compassionate towards a stranger in the rain.
Knows about APR’s and ERA’s.
Has the vernacular and pallet to appreciate my superior vocabulary and culinary skills.
Won’t steal my white business shirts.
Can go to an Ice Cream Social one night and a kinda Grimy Bar for a pub crawl the next.
Is as eclectic as I am.

• What is your defining characteristic?
Gregarious

• What is the most difficult/interesting/unusual thing you have ever done?
Milking a Snake!

• What is your favorite type of food/color/movie/book?
Sauces/Red/American Beauty/Dead Until Dark

• What are your greatest passions/pet peeves?
My Passion is Music/ People who have over bearing political fervor.

• Your biggest dream?
Realistic = To own a home in The Fab 40’s here in Sacramento
Idealistic ~ travel the globe like its a glob

• What do you most like/dislike about yourself?
I like my effort that I put into everything that I do, I just wish I had more time for everything. That said. I don’t have those washboard abs no matter how many times I do my 16 minute ab trainer. I will try in vain for ever.

• What personality traits do you like/dislike most in others?
I like Clarity. I don't enjoy deception, unless you are a Decepticon or Autobot. In which case, pretend to be my car all the time!


• What qualities do you value most in a partner? Which quality counts most?
Compassion, Culinary Savvy and Appreciation, and Independence, but I have to say that the number one thing here for me is being open minded.

• What do you think make a successful relationship?
Trust, friendship, shared interests.

• What do your friends and family say about you?
Purely speculative but I would say, Classy, Loud, Loyal, Humble, Well deserving of a good woman

• What kind of environments do you like best?
Cityscape, or total wilderness. The Suburbs aren't my thing

• Are you a loner, party animal, bit of both?
I am usually by myself in the middle of the party, living the moment to it’s fullest, so both!

• What is the first thing people notice about you?
You tell me! that is I something I need to know!

• What is your favorite self-indulgence?
Working out. Chocolate. I do this intense workout called P90X, google it if your into that kind of thing. 1 hour or more 6 days a week. I mix it up from jump training and yoga to core and weights. I also ride my bike 60 miles a week ontop of that.I guess one could call me athletic but I guess that is up to the individual to decide. Chocolate.

I also love to indugle in fine foods. I can make single serving salad bowls out of cheese. The ultimate downfall of internet dating has to be not cooking dinner myself because I can do more than most guys, and most girls for that matter.

• What would you do if you had a million dollars?
Pay off my house, upgrade it with green technology and KEEP the job I have now. I love my job! Invest the rest!

• What kind of date do you enjoy?
Something where an activity is involved, a pottery lesson or indoor surfing or a 5K run, but Vodka Sodas at Monkey Bar is an old stand by.


I am not a huge 80's fan, I listen to it all, but here are my 1980's favorite tracks

You Give Love A Bad Name
Jessie's Girl
Don't You Forget About Me
Take Me Home Tonight
867-5309
Living On A Prayer
Sweet Child O' Mine
Hit Me With Your Best Shot
Pour Some Sugar On Me
Take On Me
Rock You Like A Hurricane
Sunglasses at Night

If you would like to know me further feel free to be funny with it, I have this have and love of silly stupid pick up lines ; I laugh at them not with them.

I would tell you but then where is the Surprise?