I am probably one of the most talkative conversational outgoing people which ever you’ll meet so ..... myself “participatory” here is indicative of me seeking a connection rather than companionship. Companionship, YES my selection of words is purposefully me attempting to restrain myself; the me whom with my close friends is often brutally glib, it’s been known to happen and trust me it’ll happen. Already had one “D” which actually was very amicable and too wellwishing; without a spectacular connection I have absoluely no interest in again doing the big "M".

I do not NEED love, already I have a lot of it. The strongest love which ever I have known has been for my friends and they’ve have become my family. I would like to meet people who I can add to that family. Also, please be able to differentiate between love and sex, for me an earnestly connected sexual compatibility is a rare thing to experience and I have ONLY experienced “sustainable” with those who are first, and foremost, my friends.

First dates can be awkward so if we can get there I'd be open to most anything ... immediately coming to mind; café, casual dining, bookstore, museums or anything providing for us to be conversational.