I am a 57 year old woman who has raised two children.....It was the best, most rewarding years of my life.......Now, having an empty nest, leaves an empty void, very hard to fill!

I enjoy the simple things: garage sales, flee markets, ride in the country, stoping for some country cooking somewhere, swimming at night..with someone special, fishing, picking berries, lobster, animals, old folks, children, and pasta....just to name a few...!

I enjoy the guitar, and have had one around for years....still only play three chords...but I have fun with it.....and the dogs seem to like it.....!

What am I looking for?: Peace and contentment....that is the bottom line...to be contented with the one I am with..contentment can be there, even in the hardest of times.....To enjoy each others company, if it be in the heat of loving passion, or the most boring events...You must have everything that money, CANNOT BUY...if you have money that is a bonus!


I am pretty spontaneous....browsing antique stores, drive in the country, stop to cuddle under a tree, a home cooked meal, home movies, swim in the lake, anything and everything that is legal...and does not hurt anyone.......


I love interior decorating....and would love to meet someone that would enjoy helping me fix up the apartment...painting, wallpapering, can you sand hardwood floors? lol.....much more fun..when shared!!

I was raised near the water....but have never been in a sailboat or a canoe.....however I can row a boat....pretty damn good! I would love to learn how to sail or canoe sometime!!

I am blessed with a view of the lake from my balcony...can see sailboats in the morning......while having that first coffee.."what a blessing".....

I'd rather be a COULD-BE, if I cannot be an ARE, because a COULD-BE is a MAYBE reaching for a star, I'd rather be an HAS-BEEN, then a MIGHT-HAVE-BEEN by far...for a MIGHT HAVE BEEN, has never been, but a HAS-BEEN, was once an "ARE"........Does that sound right??

Take care everyone..have fun......

Something simple.....a coffee or drink in a quaint place....some conversation.......sharing likes and dislikes....etc....then time to consider if we desire to meet again.

This is not about making each other feel uncomfortable.....I am a common down to earth person...looking for something...just like you are....if we cannot make it has lovers......so what? If nothing else transpires, we will have meet someone new and enjoyed a coffee or drink together...what's the worst that can happen?