Yes it is what it is I'm single and have so much to offer only one man! I have everything life can offer a nice home, a job,a car, a motorcycle/ But,its not the things I have but true love for only one man. I just turned 50ty I ask myself why am I single and honestly my fiancee'died last year of a heart attack at his job. I was so shattered and finally I got thru it and had to realize that I was so lucky to have known him for 3 yrs. I'm not desperate for a man or have to have one, I am comfortable with myself and who I am. They say life is better spent with someone a partner, I believe that! My name is Tess I am creative love to cook, garden, clean and tidy, enthusiastic, fun bubbley and full of life. I love to travel and enjoy the beach,camping with the right person & fishing, boating, dining from time to time, sometimes just love watching a movie in the privacy of my own home and barbeque. Im lovable and love to cuddle with the Right person just need time to get to know someone and feel reasured they are wanting a long term relationship.
The more time I spend with someone shows me they really want to take the quality time to develope a relationship.
I'm well preserved and saving myself for the right person. I like concerts easy listenig music and country, jazz,soft rock, folk music.Ihe phone is a better choice for me. I just want someone I can just love and be there for!!! I'm not high maintenance,I'm a designer and can make anything, I would like to meet a real gentleman that really knows how to treat a lady.....

Parasailing,bungie jumping, ski diving the usual. I'm kidding. lol Well it did sound adventurous. ok meet for coffee or if its in the evening maybe a wine small appetizer. After 2 hours and you both arent in a hurry to leave or your car hasn't taken off with out you then you both just might have some chemistry. If your a gentleman there could be a 2nd date.