Hmmmmm, this describing yourself thing is pretty difficult. How do you get across a positive impression of yourself without sounding completely vain and/or conceited? I suppose you can just stick to the basics, such as...I'm financially secure and emotionally stable. I love cooking (sure, I'll cook for you), dining out (upscale,ethnic, down home, etc., as long as the food is good), long drives (with the music pumped up or listening to talk radio), movies (in the theater or at home while spooning on the couch), electronics (gotta love those gadgets), outdoor activities (fishing, bike riding, beaches, public displays of affection and more), sports (participating as well as watching), and traveling (love experiencing other places and cultures). While on the job I'm very focused and intense. Away from the job I'm very playful and flirtatious. I've been told I'm charming - not in a "playa" sort of way. I believe a woman should be treated with respect. That doesn't mean you won't get teased now and then. Sometimes I just can't help myself.

As for the woman for me...well, intelligent and physically attractive are absolute musts. Someone who enjoys lying in bed on a Sunday morning reading the newspaper, sipping coffee, or just wrapping ourselves around each other and chilling. Someone in shape but not obsessed with going to the gym everyday. A woman capable of and interested in having a conversation about things happening outside the small part of the world she inhabits. Politics? Religion? Life? Culture? Current events? Any or all of those are possibilities. Physical stimulation is a beautiful thing -- and I enjoy lots of it :-) -- but I also require equal amounts of mental stimulation.

I think something simple like a cup of coffee, a drink, or lunch would work best for a first "meet" (rather than date). Something short but hopefully sweet would allow us the opportunity to decide whether we'd like to pursue a real "date". If we decide to go on a date then the possibilities are endless. I could arrange it or we can do it together. Whatever works best for you. ;-)