yup thats me! bute huh?! =)


I’m a woman who’s looking for some friends not looking to JUST hang out isnt that like-seceret code for booty call?! lol...Im no ones booty call, if you're looking for that-keep looking somewhere else.

Please keep in mind that I do NOT date married/seperated men PERIOD

I’m outgoing, friendly, sweet in nature and have a great sense of humor...tho a bit sarcastic at times if you can handle it- I try not to be too mean or take humor in those who prefer to be mean.

hm what makes ME unique- I dont consider myself typical in any form,ive a low thresh hold for drama and I try to see good in everyone. The trick is to be content with who you are and Id say in spirit I am- as I am human and always room for improvement or to grow in differant ways why I enjoy meeting new people,allows me to grow as an individual.

Ive been accurately described as being young at heart with an old soul, I can be very goofy even with OUT a few drinks( drinking isnt a high priority)

I appreciate intelligence-a lil geeky is OK heck Im a bit geeky in my own way. I appreciate a conversation that flows rather then goes over my head
a potty mouth not really in good taste with me- Im a woman afterall but Im leanient to a degree

-so guys think about that carefully-I may come off a bi***but Ima classy one /bigsmile

I’m the type of woman who doesn’t mind if plans change at the spur of the moment or mind if Im called spur of the moment to go out IF Im home. I do mind however if plans KEEP changing-either your serious about meeting or your not...again think about this carefully =)

I’m very kind and generous to those who deserve it (a pet might be more loyal-but thats a different topic )

Its FINE if you smoke if you have respect for those who do not and know ahead of time its prohibited in my house, and I do not condone ANYTHING of illegal substance or the abuse of prescribed medications( so sad I have to put that disclaimer in eh)

YES Im a homeOWNER, I work and Ive a fairly busy sched but I WILL make time for you IF Im intrested-thats why I am here =)( and those points alone make me scary apparently =) hehe)

questions I seem to get more then others:


Why dont I reply to all of my emails? I do..WHEN I am intersted- so don't be too put off/be too disgruntled-this site Im sure has someone for jus about everyone and no hard feelings..yeah OK so the "dude youre cute lets talk" probally wont work for you =) chicks arent DUDES

Why am I so picky? not trying to sound too vein-but Im a catch for the right person and have been caught too many times by the wrong one-you know the story, we've all been there and bought the T-shirts and most of us are too old NOT to be a little picky. Im content with myself, Im content to be alone Im just here for some new friends MAYBE ok definitly a little companionship if the times right but its not high priority THATS what Im looking for in a potential more then a friend

so if you're still interested...read on =)

My Ideal Person: Im not looking for just anybody! =) seriously- Im not.

... looking for friendly upbeat positive friends/relationship potential to spend time with depending
on the situation and how we get along.

friends/potientialy more then friends who like to go out and have a good time with lots of laughs and:
-is able to occasionaly pay for themselves,
-be flexible about being treated occasionaly
-be open to pay occasionaly
(think about those carefully fellas)
-My wardrobe runs anywhere from casual beachy to goth =)so be flexible!

these are also some big pluses to think about if you're still interested =) :

-Enjoying the beach
-Plays Video Games(online/PC or a game system)
-Enjoys reading(more then the occasional magazine or funnies in the newspaper)
-likes going for road trips
-Likes animals( ive 2 cats)

sound like Im picky-aim kinda high?! youre right I am and I do but Mr right IS out there and Im a patient person.

I enjoy life.
So if you’re looking for some fun and a good
friend with the potential of something more, send me an email and let’s see what we can come up with-dont be shy-Im approachable=) really I am!

well let's see something to eat on a first date can be good or bad,these days probally not soemthing Id pick as a FIRST date unless its for ice cream somehting brief. Maybe your thinking thats harsh but hey I try to be realistic as who the heck wants to stay for lunch or dinner when youre not getting along with someone?? but it also leaves room for growth if you ARE getting along with that person.

If you have a dog, a plus for you I love animals and wouldnt mind a dog park as a first date either =) I live across the street from a park that is dog friendly if you clean up after them.

a movie for me isnt a proper 1st date ( or even second depending onthe 1st) cause we cant talk to one another. if youd like to get together as a group thats OK too breaks the ice a bit when one is amongst their friends I think.