Hi im ant, ive got to say that im intelligent but laid back and into life, and i have a big circle of friends, im independant and very well traveled, but southend is where i live and i love it.
i tried taking photos of myself but looked like an idiot on here

oh and i beat myself with a stick every weekend

Love to laugh , honest and i think fun to be with , im not a shovanist , and i encourage you to be your own person , independant , secure and fun

i enjoy jet sking , the gym and im runnig my own business

Like people who speak there mind and im genrally caring,

And im a good dad to my 2 girls , well message me if you want im normal so wont bite and im not rude...

First dates should not be planned, just go with the flow, if you get on then i does not matter if you in a resturant or eating fish and chips, you got to be yourself from day one.