Ok..If you're the kind of guy who is just looking to get laid, there are other sites for that. I do not have time for games or b.s., had my share thank you. I don't lie and I will not tolerate being lied to. Life is too short for that so keep moving on to the next profile. I'm a very independent type, and I mean very. I tend to keep to myself unless I have a strong oppinion or belief about something, then I have no fear of being heard. I like to watch people, you can learn so much about someone by just watching them. Besides that you'll also realize how many idiots are out there. Hence why I stay to myself. ;) I have 2 dogs, one is really big, Redbone Coon Hound and the other is a little Beagle. My buddies. I have one daughter who is 11 and the spitting image of her mother in every way. It's like watching a home movie every day and having to interact with it. Very strange. I am unable to have anymore children which is fine with me. I have my hands full with the one I have even though she's a brilliant beautiful child I couldn't imagine another one like me trying to run my world. I've been in a couple of seriously foul relationships or with men who turned out to be completely heinous human beings which led to my need to keep to myself. But I will say I've survived and have learned that things or people are not always what they seem. It's a sad fact of life unfortunately. I don't judge people and I don't automatically expect someone to disappointment me at all but it seems to happen more often than not. I have a knack for attracting idiots and *ssholes and I have no idea why. Thought I had that sign on my forehead removed! So I'm here with the rest of you to try to make some sort of connection with normal, sane people. I heard they do exist. Let's see what happens. Hopefully we aren't all jaded so much by others of this world we normals can't find each other!
As far as men...or ones I have imagined, would be confident first and foremost, insecurity is the biggest turn off period. Insecurity in one person always seems to lead them to want to change everything about the other person in their life. Odd. But be sure to keep your...cock-iness in your pants. To be a confident, humble man is a gift rarely seen. But again, I've heard from reliable sources they are out there.
He's got to be at least 5'10" with Morals, Meaning and Manners~

First date...hmmmm...I tend to avoid "making plans" and instead just see what the time spent with someone leads to.