Hi-

I'm here, hopefully, for the same reason as you; to find my best friend. I'm not looking for a woman who believes a relationship is 50/50 but rather 100/100.

I'm looking for a dinner companion, someone to see a movie with, have a road trip to a little out of the way quiet spot, bike ride and hike with, is an avid thumb wrestler, and to build something great with. If you're serious, you can find a great friend in me. The only game I'm playing here is for keeps.

I'm smart, have a sense of humor (a bit dark, I'll admit), and creative. I'll say that I just love winters in NJ but will usually start complaining about the cold in December. I usually eat healthy, work out a bit and stay fit, but I'll stop at White Castles. I love a fine red but never know what to order. I can listen to anything except country. I'd rather listen to Tibetan singing bowls than country. My favorite foods are sushi and Indian but I'll eat anything and usually like it. I miss cooking for two.

I'd rather meet over pancakes than for drinks. I'm looking for someone who can make me smile with her wits, to accept the gifts I feel compelled to give, and to simply be with me during the thousands of small moments that, in aggregate, compose a friendship. I'm alright alone but better together. I don't want to lead and I don't want to follow - I want to walk hand in hand. The good guy you want is a real treasure and I want the same. I'm looking for the perfect love affair so shoot me if that sounds too drippy. I get odd comments here. This place is weird.

We can see who can twist the straw wrapper into a tighter spear.