I'm in an open marriage, looking for some no-strings fun. I'm your classic "nice guy". I'm hoping to find others in that would be willing to have some fun with a drug/disease free guy that definitely believes in safe sex and is good with his hands....

My hobbies include reading, practicing martial arts, relaxing to music, and listening to podcasts. I also like playing pool and bowling. Music-wise, I generally fall into the ABC category - anything but country :P I've been told I give great massages, and I enjoy both listening to people and trying to make them laugh. I've also made it to Shodan in a style of Okinawan Karate.

I'm definitely not the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am type, and I really do enjoying meeting and getting to know people... I just want to be upfront and clear that in terms of anything long-term, I'm not looking for anything beyond a steady friend with benefits. I value honesty very highly and I'm not into playing games, hopefully neither are you!

My idea of a fun night would start with a nice dinner, getting to know each other, especially turn-ons and turn-offs. Hopefully we'd hit it off and could go back to a hotel for a dip in the hot tub, followed by a nice sensual massage back in the hotel room, followed by.... hmm, I don't know what's next, help me figure it out!