I dont normaly try to describe myself, that is left to the eye of the beholder. I was once a bit of a bad boy until my daughters were born but they have drasticly changed my perception on life, relationships, women, and pretty much just how I view the world and its definatly for the better. Although I'm not an aggressive person I would personally like to slap most of the guys on these dating websites because they make it so hard for an honest, caring, loyal, and all around good guy to meet someone that hasnt been jaded or just plain overwelmed by the player mentality that seems to be so prevelant in this type of setting. I have a good heart and am not afraid to open it to the right person as well as I love to treat my lady like a princess or at least as far as the little important things are concerned like stopping on the way home from work and picking up your favorite snack or just a little special something because I was thinking of her and especially when were alone. I can definatly say that one of the things I love the most is to see the expression of bliss on my partners face when she is happy, content, and satisfied. I cant say that I am totally submissive in the fact that in the right setting I do like to take control sometimes but only when it is pleasurable to both of us. Bottom line is if I message you Its because I see something in your profile and your face that seems to be genuine and potentialy persuable not to mention calming and trustworthy considering my match would be in all probabilaty exposed to my children.

A good first date for me is to go to karaoke because it lets the fun, humorous side come out but I also enjoy a quite dinner where we can talk as well, but I am very open to new ideas.