I am 36 yrs old. I am 5' 10 tall and weigh 175 lbs. I was married for 5 yrs and cared for 4 kids that weren't mine and that at times made it difficult. The whole marriage was regrettably a mistake, but we tried and tried to endure through it, but finally decided that it just wasn't meant to be. So, that is what I desire, Something that truly is Meant to be. I have no children, but love them lots and would like to have some of my own before I get too old. I totally love the outdoors, but only when it is warm, like above 50 degrees. I love to golf and play often, and would like to find a partner to play with or teach to golf. I also love the Kansas City Chiefs and am a season ticket holder. When it is cold and nasty outside, I enjoy cooking a nice dinner and hanging out watching a movie or playing a game. I enjoy spoiling a woman with surprise gifts and or little things that show her I am interested in her. I hate to admit, but I really enjoy taking a woman clothes shopping and spending time together looking for clothes and walking around hand in hand and laughing, enjoying each others company. I don't want to brag, but I have lots to give and offer, I'm just looking for the right person to give it to. Maybe, that is you, but we'll have to take time to get to know each other and see if that is the case. Look forward to hearing from you soon.

On a first date I would take the time and effort prior to a date to learn what my date was interested in and what her hobbies were and what she enjoys to do. Then I would reccomend that the two of us together decide upon what we wanted to do. A little input and effort from the lady is always appreciated when trying to decide what to do with a new person, so come on ladies.....speak out! I know, I know before long I'll be wishing that I never suggested that to you! Anyways, thats how I would handle a first date, and if she still insists that I plan. Well then, I'm sure nothing wrong with a nice dinner and chat and decide if we wanna go do anything after that? :-)