i have been toilet lid trained.Don't do much, just work, like quite times, SNUGGLE,i must not have been held when i was young because i sure like it.it makes me feel warm inside & wanted.(do you think i need therapy?) give body & foot rubs, like to touch, be touched, hold hands, the smell touch & taste of a woman.Just be with the one who wants to be with me.holding hands in public our arms around each other maybe a little pat on the butt.
i like Country , light rock, some classic rock, old fashion gospel music.I'm not religious, but old fashioned gospel music has a soothing affect on me.if you have access to music on the Internet listen to hal bynum, the promise ,old mans prayer,&two women.

I Know the difference between right &wrong.I'm an honest man (just because I'm not religious doesn't mean I'm not a good person)I'm not a prude either.I'm not a party person.i am a people watcher. young, old, women & men especially old couples they make me smile.

I don't drink, but don't have a problem with it as long as your not a drunk.light smoking is tolerable but prefer non smokers.this part will make me sound shallow but don't do large women a little spare tire is acceptable, sorry but the hot women aren't beating down my door ether.I'm 6'1" but i may be shrinking or its gone to my middle damm old age.253-257lbs. don't have a young body & dont expect yours to be either to be real honest i think women in there late 30 on up (Ive seen 60 year olds that still have it together does this make me weird) are a hole lot sexier than 20 year olds have you seen the way they dress?pajamas to shop in. body piercings, tattoos.i dont understand tattoos? & then older women have much more confidence about them.

I like to 2 step on occasion love to waltz,i cant dance to rock n roll i freeze up & feel stupid i need to have a pattern to follow I'm not into sports at all.you people take it way to serious I like to tinker around the house.

I live in the country were its peaceful,but not a country boy. Although I would like to learn to ride a horse.I'm a clean person , keep a neat house and appreciate the same. Some of my favorite movies are: The Note Book, Always,Who's Life is it Anyway,Simon Birch.Not in to personal drama, love to smile joke around.always have a smart ass answer.I'm not a politically correct person either I'm one of those "he's too nice" guys (what does that mean?)i swear I'm beginning to think you girls like guys to treat you like dirt(but i love him & can change him ,you cant change people they can hide for a while but their true colors will eventually come out.) you say you want a nice guy but you seem to fall for the jerks because the good guys aren't any fun.

I'm sometimes too honest. If you ask, I'll tell you.I try hard not to hurt others I know how it feels. i don't care if you make a lot of money (a sugar momma would be nice to try)we all cant be rich or smart.some of the happiest people Ive ever meet are poor.i will look down on you if personal hygiene or you dress like a slob. even poor people have soap&water.

I like women in dresses (you women don't wear them any more)& not trashy ones(OK sometimes)sexy ones just above the knee with 3 " heels very nice. Jeans & a tee shirt with a ball cap can be sexy too.i like a woman to be assertive in the bed room I'm a guy we dont take hints very well,tell us what you want, we are not mind readers.we will give you that head tilted to the side puppy dog look.

I don't have kids but that doesn't mean I don't like them.In my job I see the bad side of people. So I have come to really dislike rude, inpatient, selfish, people. Wish I had more time & money to do good things to less deserving people.I'm quiet, soft spoken,just because i don't have any hobbies doesn't mean i don't like doing stuff I'm always open for suggestions.I'm not in to Adrenalin rushes. i dont need the crap scared out of me to feel alive.the only excitement my heart needs is from my girl.as long as I'm with the one that makes my heart happy.i want to be with some one that we know what the others thinking with out words being said.(not that kiss my ass look either)i know that one. to lay in ones arms after making love & not knowing where i end & they start.
i love dogs,i lost mine 7 years ago & still miss him dearly.if you want to know who loves you more try putting your dog & your boyfriend in the trunk of your car for an hour ,come back & see who's happy to see you.if humans could love each other as unconditionally as dogs, wouldn't this be a great place to live?
i have a whole lot of love for the right person but like most of you i have been hurt & disappointed,so letting one have all my heart will take time.i can let my guard down quickly but it can go up just as fast.i don't like to argue but wont put up with a lot of BS ether.if you want to play games just go on down the road.I'm lonely but not lonely enough that i cant be by myself it has been 3 years since my last date.and i have gone as long as 7 years so as you can see i don't need a women in my life but it sure would be nice.or not. you can be a pain in the butt sometimes, as we can be to you.part of the mars & Venus thing i think.
i think of sex every day & would like it every day(that's never happened or will) but I'm not here for sex,I'm here to find a woman to make love to(it is so much better to make love than to have sex)if i just wanted sex i could go to other web sites to get that.not that i haven't looked but not what I'm looking for.(hey i am a red blooded man we will always look)
I'm not here to pay off your bills,every thing i have I'm willing to share but it doesn't make it yours. i have worked to hard & long to start over financially sorry to sound so cold but didn't put in 16 hour days for 30 years so you can take it away.probably why i don't have a relationship?every thing i have is paid for now I'm working on putting away for retirement.i dont make 6 figures so it will probable take till the day before i kick the bucket.my job is very demanding & takes a lot of my time(time is my worst enemy) but I'm just running in the state of Oklahoma right now, some times I'm home ever night, sometimes I'm gone all week.
some of you that i look at are to far away to date (pitfalls of living in small town in the middle of no were) but when all the chores are done what else am i gonna do so i look.30 miles east of ponca city, i was raised in Wichita.here are some sayings that have touched me..just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they dont love you with all they have.the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you cant have them.

Well probably the normal get to know you stuff. I hate the dating stuff. It's so awkward. Some people make it look so easy.I'm not in to opening car doors i don't know why? i just don't. any other door i do.when do you hold hands? go for that first kiss? am i doing some thing stupid?did i just say something to offend her?does she like the way i dress?am i moving to fast,to slow ?i hope she didn't hear me fart. aaaaaaaahhhhh....why cant we be like dogs smell each others butts go have sex be buddies for life how do we make it so complicated?probably offended some of you on that one but its true. a good first date would be lunch at a quiet restaurant.