Hi all sweet ladies out there. Here is my long-delayed update to my profile, so prepare yourself and buckle up, because it is a truly comprehensive one. Enjoy the ride.

the essentials about me...
- No bs of any kind. No time wasters please. Fed up of it already.
- I believe impossible is only what I do not believe in, thus I'm sure I'll reach every goal in my life. After all I reached as far as America already (a long journey and even longer story).
- Is glass half-full or half-empty? – that depends on whether you are in the middle of emptying, or filling it up. I consider myself realistic optimist.
- No regrets, no looking back. Managed to lead my life in a fairly wise way so far I think.
- Smart enough to speak a human language (or two), artistic, sometimes sarcastic and aesthetically sensitive.
- Music: Very open aesthetics here. As a composer it is essential to be able to appreciate virtually any music in different ways, to gain as many influences as possible, for to be original. Yet I have my subjective favourites (Jazz, Jazz/Rock, modern Symphonic, Experimental and film music, some Classical)
- Movies: All good ones and flashy ones with a good storyline.
- TV: Not watching, unless I feel like watching adverts (sad reality), but that hardly ever happens
- Idols: All the greatest composers and artists of the world. Science is also an Art.
- Trying to absorb the world as broadly as possible and turn the experience into music.
- I'm always looking for creative ways to make the world a better place (thus my research on the crossroads of Music, Math and Neuroscience).
- I don’t like to be labelled ‘romantic’. Maybe it's because for the most of the time I hate clichés often associated with the term. My friends though often stick this label to me from one or another reason. Can’t be helped.
- I’m a guy who makes a clear distinction between my needs, goals and dreams, in my private as well as professional life, which is something that I notice many people have very blurred idea of. My dreams and goals are very ambitious, my needs are rather basic, well not all of them.
- If hurt, I never hold no grudge towards anyone (at least not for long). It's pointless. As one guy tried to teach people over 2000 years ago - Forgive to be forgiven. Past cannot be changed and we should only learn from it.
- I NEVER judge people for whom they are. You never know just whom you would become in different circumstances in your life.
- Very "out of the box thinking" kinda guy, with a big picture always on my mind, no mater just how deep I penetrate the details.
- Life is like surfing - always try to catch the highest tide, do my lifetime performance, and then do it again on a new tide - and never give up during the show.

Now, as you got this far...
I am European composer, an eternal student who came to America to pursue his dreams. One of them is to find my love. Although European, don’t worry about some difficult to understand accent, unless British one really doesn’t turn you on. One of the gifts from Mother Nature I appreciate most is my tongue. Had many varied experiences throughout my life, that shaped a very strong, ambitious and motivated character.

the relatoinship...
I’m sure that as most of us you have your busy life and you need a relationship that will rather help you to squeeze all your life in your timeframe, rather than absorb more of your time than you can afford. Of course there is no relationship without a commitment, but I think you would prefer a commitment with clear limits. At least at the beginning. My last relationship in London was a truly wonderful experience for both of us, full of understanding of our mutual needs. However there was no drama when I had to move to the US. Things sometimes just move forward, and there's no drama to be expected from my side in any case.
Life is very much about pleasure, isn’t it? This is the thing that keeps us going. I understand the meaning of “please and be pleased” is not exclusive to sexual context. Pleasing can have many dimensions. One can please with supportive smile or/and word when it gets tough, a simple touch or a hug. Encouragement or support when making difficult decisions, listen and to be listened, always pleasing and fruitful conversation on a descent level, or even to tease a bit and play to challenge each other on different levels, in different ways to make it more interesting, exciting. Those are so basic, simple things, yet so often they slip out of sight on one side or another due to the daily struggle. I witnessed this so many times in other relationships – fading spark because of fading affection. All of us gathered on this site want to love and be loved, in one way or another.

sex...
When it comes to night-time activities, I feel fully satisfied only when I know that my love is satisfied as well. It is crucial I believe to be able to speak openly about sex in relationship. It is after all, so important part of our lives.

dreams, goals & needs...
When it comes to dreams, I’m sure that almost every person out there dreams of having their dreams fulfilled. Now imagine a wizard who could make all your dreams come true, just like that. Would it really solve all the problems? Would it make me any better, more valuable person, or a wiser one? Wouldn't it be more like a spoiled kid getting a lollipop on each demand? The biggest failure of my life would be to die in decadency of being given too much. I feel I was given enough already from Mother Nature (or rather my parent’s genes :). How ironic, isn’t it? Would you be able to fully appreciate your holiday if you have never worked? If it was simply “given”. If the answer is yes, I’m sure you will understand my take on the issue. Rather than having my dreams fulfilled, I rather enjoy my chance to fulfil our mutual ones. I just need loving help, a company to travel along through life. As I said, I'm a surfer of life. I love the thrill of victory just as much as the thrilling struggle during the performance. To feel the satisfaction that I did well. I need somebody very close, to help me getting my surfing board, an opportunity of a good tide, and cheering in exciting anticipation for victory, so it is a mutual one. No victory tastes when you’re on your own, when you can’t share the joy of being on the top.
This is my idea of living and my dream, is to live.

This is the way I feel, think and express myself. If you can relate to the above, you’re the one I’m writing all these words for.

Cheers

PS
Check out my space site to hear some of my music:
http://www.my space.com/jaredt83
Almost each piece is of a different character/genre. Hope you enjoy.

Must be positive, intellectually challenging, sexy etc. The form or setting is of a less importance to me.
Regards