--What is this forced, awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating? You’re sitting there, you're wondering, "Do I have food on my face? Am I eating? Am I talking too much? Are they talking enough? Am I interested? I'm not really interested. Should I play like I'm interested? But I'm not that interested, but I think she might be interested. But do i want to be interested? But now she's not interested." So now, all of sudden I'm starting to get interested. And when am i supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door? Cause then it's awkward, it's like "Well, good night." Do you do like the ass-out hug? Or do you go right in and just kiss'em on the lips or don't kiss'em at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation and all the while you're just really wondering, "Are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions?" And perhaps play a little game called "just the Tip." Just for a second, just to see how it feels, or "Ouch Ouch, You're on My Hair?"

--I'm a 25 year old Administrative Assistant near Pittsburgh, Pa. I work long hours to pay off bills and my student loan. I want everyone to know that I am usually only on this site at work to pass some time and if I get to know someone in the process than that is a bonus (for both of us!) but I am online so much during my work day that I hardly get on at home or on the weekends!

--I went to college at Slippery Rock University and majored in Elementary Education. I have not received my certification yet because at the time I planned on moving out of state but changed my mind and decided to stay in Pa.

--In my spare time, I enjoy movies at the theater, popping in a dvd and relaxing for a while, reading, watching tv, running, fishing with my brother, going to the mall, shopping, going to the park, amusement parks, hiking, swimming and going to the beach. Please don't ask me what I like to do for fun or on the weekends! I HATE that question and you just read it here!

--I have a vision of my niche in life that I would someday like to have. It's not set in stone, but the basics are there: family, a home, dog, children, a career, a life.

--I'm a little shy at first, but beneath that is a sensitive, affectionate, loyal, patient, intelligent, and engaging person.

--I usually listen to country music. I know most people don't like it but I really don't care what everyone else thinks about it. Its my kinda music!

--I'm not really looking for anyone on here. I just got on to chit-chat through-out my day at work but I guess if I had to describe what I was looking for, I would say I'm looking for a man who shares my outlook on life and a few of my interests. I don't have any particular "type," I think that it depends on the individual. BUT I need someone who is going to capture my attention and make me laugh. If you can't connect on that level there is no point in even talking. I want someone to keep me on my toes, be creative and surprise me once in a while. I'd like to say - Wow, I didn't expect that!

--I don't give out my number very often. Don't message me, expecting to get it within a week, its not gonna happen. If I want you to have my number, I'll give it to you. If you don't like it... don't message me. It's as simpe as that! Also, I'm not looking to go out and date right now. Im just at a point in my life where I'm taking one day at a time. Please don't message me expecting to go out in the next week, again, its not going to happen! If we've been talking long enough and we have that connection, then we'll talk about it.

--If you have any questions, just ask! No harm or loss in sending a few emails. Hope to hear from YOU!

My ideal first date would be with Channing Tatum and Scott Michael Foster. I think they are the hottest men on the face of this earth! lol