Between my full time job, 2 boys (3 and 9) and helping out my elderly father at his home I don't have a ton of free time. When I do have free time, I enjoy shopping, playing softball or soccer, reading horror novels,and going to movies. Just joined a gym so I try to squeeze time in there as well. Once in a while I just like to veg out and do NOTHING but watch TV and zone out. Doesn't everyone?

I am an insurance rater hoping to move up to Underwriter in a few years. I have a college degree from UC Davis and have made the Sacramento are my home for approx 15 years, but before that grew up in the Bay Area.

Looking for someone of the opposite sex for just fun and hanging out when my ex has the kids. You must like to get out there and try new things, but also enjoy just relaxing and doing nothing once in a while. I have a dry sense of humor - but not mean - so it's good if you are not sensitive to that kind of thing. I can take it as well as dish it!

I am caucasian/half african american (I only mention it because I get asked so often WHAT ARE YOU?). I used to answer IM HUMAN but that only goes over sometimes. I prefer caucasian men but I wouldn't rule any other races out.

If there are no sparks but we enjoy hanging out there is nothing wrong with being buddies as far as I'm concerned. A few good friends is all you need, but it's always nice to make a new one.

If it were a blind date yes I would do the standard coffee or lunch/dinner for the usual reasons. Otherwise I would love to go for a hike or take a day trip somewhere like Tahoe. I will even go to the park and kick a soccer ball or throw a baseball back and forth, don't always have to spend money. Comedy clubs are fun instead of the standard movie, but movies are good too. I'm not really too picky the company is more important than the activity.