I am a very outgoing person, who enjoys meeting new people. I love to have fun and if you can make me laugh we can definately become good friends.My uniqueness is my genuine character i'm straight forward..goal oriented... and pretty much achieve whatever i set my mind to i'm not looking for someone to make me or complete me i'm secure in my own skin. I love all kinds of music except go go..sorry i'm from Baltimore and that's one of the cardinal sins...lol anything else just ask me and i'm sure i have an answer for you...lol

But enlight of the notes and responses i've been getting let me just add a little more info so that i won't waste either your time or mine....
If you: Are looking for a hangout buddy or an activities partner DON'T NOTE ME
If you are looking for someone to occassionally have sex with DON'T NOTE ME
If you don;t like a women that is into the hair..make-up...shopping or what i have been told high maintenance DON'T NOTE ME...I'm really not understanding the term high maintenance with this one because it's not like i'm asking you to inherit my lifestyle..trust me if it's here when you come it will be there once your gone... and last but not least if you don't have a picture or are married..living with a feamle...have a female that thinks you and her are in a realtionship PLEASE DON"T NOTE ME...
Although my profile says that i am looking to date i use the term losely meaning i would like to have the oppurtunity to go out with some one that shares some of my same intrests and see what happens...I have also gotten alot of notes from white men asking if i date them... Come on fellas it is 2009 GGGGZZZZ color and race are not a factor as to whether or not i will date you... come with a little tact.. some personality... and good conversation and let;s see what happens ;)

FIRST DATES...ugggghhh how ackward but i guess everyone has to do it at some point so let me see hmmm Let's not call it a date but simply a first outing. I would definately like to meet in a laid back setting or in a place that i could see the person face to face without alot of noise or interruptions and for me the first 10 minutes of conversation will tell the story of if there will be a second date. p.s. Oh and of course he's buying....:)
*****NOTE DISCLAIMER***** PLEASE DO NOT NOTE ME IF I HAVE NOT RESPONDED TO YOUR FIRST NOTE ALREADY...TRUST ME I WILL RESPOND BACK TO YOU JUST GIVE ME A CHANCE :)