Hello, I'm Tom and I have alot to say so forgive me if I ramble on. I have been devorced for many years now and I think that it's time to move on with my life. I am looking for a friend, a partner, a lover and more. I am looking for a serious long term relationship. I think that a relationship should start as friends first and just see where the friendship goes. I like to take things slow so I can get to know people. I'm 6'4", 230 pounds with dark hair and brown eyes (that sometimes turn green, Kinda weird, huh). I'm origanally from Quartz Hill, California. I'm a desert rat, Blue Jeans & T-shirt, Pick-up truck kind of guy. I have three tattoos. I'm laid back for the most part. I'm simple yet complex. I have a great sense of humor that can be kind of WARPED at times (I can find humor in many things and I'm kind of a smartass). I can almost always find a way to make people laugh, even if I have to do something silly or stupid just to get a smile. I can and often do laugh at myself. I try to look on the brighter side of life (even if I need a flashlight to do so). I'm a "BIG PICTURE" kind of thinker. I know when to admit when I'm wrong. I am VERY honest and I'm NOT afraid of voicing my oppinion. I don't drink or smoke anymore (Ok, I might have a cigar once in a great while) and my party, club and bar days are basically over (been there, done that, got a t-shirt). I'm an ex-mini trucker (2 MINI RUMORS, Antelope Valley, Ca.). I like motor sporst, especially off road. I can do without football, basketball, baseball and most other sports. I like scenic drives, outdoor activities, off road trucks and activities (If your not breaking parts, your not playing hard enough), Working on vehicles, Fishing, Watching movies, Action, Horror (Vampire mainly), Sci-fi, Fantacy, Comedy And some westerns. For TV, I like True Blood, Dexter, Battlestar Galactica, Caprica, Ghost Hunters, Paranormal State, Ghost Adventures, Ghost Lab, Dirty Jobs, Mythbusters, Kings, Powerblock TV, Top Gear, News and so on. I will even sit down and watch cartoons with my daughter. I would like to learn how to ride a motor cycle someday (Harley-Davidson of course, HELL YA!). I enjoy hanging out with good friends and Bar-B-Qs (MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM Bar-B-Q). For music, I like Rock, METAL (does anyone remember 94.7 KMET?), Country, some alternative and some jazz (I totally dig the "Linus and Lucy" music theme from Peanuts/Charlie Brown). My favorite bands are Rob Zombie (White Zombie), Iron Maiden, Led Zeppelin, Godsmack, Fleetwood Mac and The Beatles. I also dig some Oingo Biongo. I'm kinda crazy. I don't have much, but what I have I'm thankful for. I have had paranormal experiences through out my life. You might find that strange or even scary, but to me, it's kinda the norm. It's nothing that you should be affraid of. I'm not perfect, Far from it. But who truely is? I AM a work in progress. I believe in an allmighty GOD and I believe that the devil exists. I believe that there are angels and demons, ghosts and spirits. I believe in karma (what goes around, comes around). I believe in ballance. I also believe that certain things happen for a reason. TRUST and HONESTY are very important to me, without both you CAN NOT have a strong, reliable, trustworthy relationship. I WILL NOT tollerate Liars, Users, Players, Drug users or Incansiderate and Disrespectful people. NO LIES!!! NO GAMES!!! NO PLAYERS!!! NO B.S.!!! I would like to meet someone that can accept me for who I am. Someone who is intelligent and not some air head bim-bot. Someone that has a good sense of humor. Someone that is looking for TRUST, HONESTY, DEDICATION and RELIABILITY in a relationship. I'm sorry, but I do not know how to dance. Race is not an issue. I like pets but I have alergies so I have to be careful around animals. I have two dogs, a rottweiler and a cur. I am HIGHLY alergic to cats (sorry to all of you cat lovers out there). MUST NOT SMOKE. I CAN NOT stand the smell of cigarettes. I have lived in California (Antelope Valley) all my life, but I have traveled throughout the western U.S. and Canada. I have a teenage daughter who is the center of my universe. She IS the reason I LIVE. She IS my HERO. I AM a PROUD PROUD daddy.
If you have any questions, comments, want to chat or just say HI, contact me.


As far as the paranormal is consearned. It is just something that I have always experienced. I have a sensitivity to paranormal activity. I have also had psychic experiences. I am considering on starting my own paranormal investigations group someday. I am a christian and I believe that there is more to life and death than what I have been told and taught.
If you have any questions, just ask. I'll do my best to answer them.


NOTE: If you are impatient, pushy, a control freak, bossy, rude, lie, self centered, self righteous, Lazy, alcoholic, druggy, involved with anyone, have an STD, a drama queen, Then DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I DO NOT WANT OR NEED YOUR B.S.!

Lets keep it simple and easy. Maybe meet for ice cream or drinks (non-alcoholic, no bars please), someplace where we can just talk and get to know each other. I'm not really a coffee drinker but if you want to meet for coffee, that's fine with me. Maybe meet at a park or someplace comfortable and friendly. So, what do you think, am I a catch or a release?