It's difficult to convey who I am and what I'm looking for; that being said I'll give you some insight and if you're interested then we can talk about the rest.

I have a different outlook on life as I am an energetic type A personality that likes to stop and smell the roses. I want the kind of relationship that resembles a "boyfriend" and progresses to a long term relationship, and hopefully a companion for life. I'd like to have that special connection with another, share great conversation regarding our day, and plan future days.

Going out and hanging out with a large or small group is great as I'm comfortable in both. Blue jeans or dressing up - I'm comfortable in either. Going to the movies to watch a comedy or drama is fun, or it's great to stay in, watch a movie, and cuddle on the couch. I like to go out for a nice dinner and enjoy good wine or stay home and cook together - I'm a pretty good cook or so my kids tell me :-) My dog is my 4th child, I love to play with her and take her for walks but sharing the walk with someone special would be a nice addition. Traveling to different destinations, watching the sun set, boating, and golfing are just a few of my favorite things to do. I'm open to explore new places and activities.

Communication is big with me - staying in touch is the key to sustained intimacy. Saying good morning - even if it's a text, and to talk in the evening - even if we can't see each other - I'm interested in your day and hopefully you would be interested in mine. I believe that two people have a lot to learn about each other and it can't be accomplished, effectively, anyway by speaking every couple of days. Affection is also big with me, I love to hold hands, kiss, and snuggle. I'm passionate about most things, sensual, flirtatious with my man, and funny - Life is too short to live it in a grumpy mood.

Being organized, neat, timely, gives me a sense of calmness in this busy world. I'm emotionally available and want someone that is there for the long run, someone who I can talk to, trust, and have fun with. I don't play games and do not want someone that is a "player" - I'm not into one night stands. Working in the fiancial industry is never dull - I like problem solving and helping people.

I hope you all have gotten the sense that I'm a very honest and upfront individual. Honestly, I’m looking for someone who cares for me as much as I care for them. My special man should be tall, fit, affectionate, loving, circumcised, and can make me laugh. He must me emotionally ready and able to devote time to develop something special. I have a lot to give to the right man. It would be wonderful to have many things in common but not necessary to possess all my likes. This is what makes people unique and compliment each other at the same time. If you are into communication, affection, and looking for the "one" - Let’s start as friends, enjoy each other’s company as we get to know each other and ultimately develop a relationship that we can commit to. If I haven't scared you off - I would love to hear from you.