I’m a divorced man, age 46, looking for a long-term relationship with a woman roughly between the ages of 35 and 50. I have no children and live in my own home in Pawtucket. I exercise regularly. I enjoy going to both the movies and live theater, as well as outdoor events like country fairs & festivals. I’m an avid Red Sox fan, but also follow the Patriots & Celtics more casually. I enjoy eating out, usually at the more moderately priced restaurants like Chelos, Bugaboo Creek, 99 etc. I read a great deal, both fiction (Patrick O’Brian, John LeCarre, Dan Simmons) and non-fiction (history, biography, baseball). Some of my favorite movie directors are Michael Powell, Anthony Mann, Martin Scorsese and Francis Ford Coppola. I have a big Maine coon cat named Sam (I wanted to put his picture on here but he's afraid his friends will see it).

I'm very outgoing and forward in my professional life, but somewhat more reserved in personal situations, at least until the ice is broken. That doesn't mean a first date will be filled with awkward silences, but if you're looking to be swept off your feet right away I can't make any promises. I am however someone who is honest, open and interested in what you have to say and not just bragging about myself. I am not a cheater or a two-timer. With the right woman I can be very passionate & playful, probably alot more than you might imagine upon first meeting me. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be, either. We're beyond that stage in life.

I’m seeking a woman who’s attractive and somewhat outgoing, and who enjoys outdoor activities, cultural events and the quiet pleasures of domestic life as much as I do. I'm fond of the usual romantic settings (walks on the beach, kisses in the moonlight, etc.) but usually when I think of romance it’s something more home-centered, like cuddling on a cold winter night while the wind blows, holding hands on the porch on a hot summer evening, watching a good DVD, or cooking a meal together. If these things strike a chord with you, then we should talk further.