Hi there, my name is Matt from Chesterfield, Derbyshire. An enthusiastic, single 31 year old mature guy seeking a unique female for dating / possible long term relationship.

Consider myself as very open minded about many things in life who accepts people for who they are. If there is one thing I have learnt since growing up is never judge a person until you've actually met them. My ideal partner would be someone who is kind hearted, has a bubbly fun loving personality combined with a GSOH. In other words a woman who is genuine and true to herself. Find women even more attractive who are that way inclined.

Are you that kind of person who is into plenty of romance and sharing memorable experiences? "I'm your man!" Although age doesn't really come into the equation. Would appreciate meeting someone who has near enough the similar qualities personality wise (stated above). But all not essential. I treat people how they want to be treated. As the saying goes "never judge a book by it's cover". Also their is hopefully the prospect of having children in the future. However would try to build on a relationship firstly. At present I do not have any kids but seem to get on really well with them in previous forms of life. So don't be put off by the fact if you have children or child yourself (I'm very open minded where relationships are concerned, the same goes for a lot of other matters).

Main interests include:

Going out socialising with regular friends & family. Being single, I do like to do my own thing. However it would be even more exciting and memorable from a romantic point of view to share the same experiences with a woman who loves me. Treats me with respect. I'm very easygoing whereas meeting people and sharing different interests are concerned. But if I dislike something I'll tell you straight. Like to be honest about things. Meeting new people in my spare time is a definite must! Thoroughly enjoy enthusiastic conversation going out for a quiet drink with friends. Also missing romantic cosy nights in front of the TV watching a film & just chilling out. The thought of it feels dead romantic! Not really into clubbing nowadays. Chatting in a nice quiet pub / bar would do just fine.

Rarely go to the Cinema but if any decent film sparks my interest I will be encouraged from time to time. Again my film generes do vary from Action Thrillers, Horror, Romantic Thrillers & Adventure. Do occassionally like watching normal satelite TV. However I feel their is no substitute for good old fashioned chat with friends or family. Or someone who can share romantic days & nights with me. Any offers? Enjoy traveling no matter where it is but that has been put on hold for the time being. Prefer to socialise with my mates now. Seeking a special woman to share these times also. Other casual activities include reading, photography and listening to various types of music. Late 1990's - present day Dance, Trance, Electronica (anything with a good vibe would get my approval). Dislike Classical music, bores me to tears. Prefer to listen to more upbeat tunes.

Hopes & Aspirations:

To meet a unique, caring, fun loving, trustworthy mature woman who is basically down to earth. While at the same time is genuine and honest. It would mean a lot if I actually found my one true love. Most importantly of all being able to care for a partner or support each other through the good times & the bad. Not had much luck in the past myself but I'm determined "Mrs Right" exists somewhere.

Want to know anything else? Please message me XX

Go for a quiet drink and take it from there. Prefer chatting in a relaxed atmosphere and getting to know the person.