i like to write read and spend time with family and friends. in a dream world i would like to become a successful published author, in reality i just want to find peace. i am genuine to a fault. i was raised with four sisters so i am more comfortable with girls. this last year has been life changing and i discovered a lot about myself and who my friends were. i was born in the wrong decade and too old fashioned for my age. and as an addition after using this site for the last few days...can someone explain to me what's ok on here to do...because i feel like a jerk or a cheater every time i message more than one person

added 10-5

i've been using this site for awhile and i've learned a few things
first i've learned that the majority of guys on here are pretty theatrical, persistent and creeps...and i'm a bit embarassed to be among them

second...although i want to date, i have to be lame and baby step as the friend thing first...sorry, i wear my heart on my sleeve and i don't want to do anything i'm not sure of

third...a lot of girls on here are crazy and kinda mean...which i assume has to do with the guys they are dealing with...but i'm not that guy and would rather no be judged as such

and lastly...i kinda hate the email thing and mostly just wait for the moment we can talk, because i cannot learn anything without a voice and personality

i think that's it...try me

oh, one more thing...one nite i looked at the intimate encounter page...because i was curious...judge that if you like.. and saw a girl that talked about love and romance and so i asked why she was looking for an intimate encounter...she said she was a very intimate person...and i said you should look for more than one nite with someone...and she said she never said one nite...long story short...she didn't know what it meant and was on there on accident...but because i wrote her i am apparently a sex offender and can't write to anyone that has "must not have messaged looking for an encounter"...i really don't feel like recreating a profile...if you don't believe me then too bad for you...if anything it should seem obvious i'm a bit too honest...

a walk...that's it...anywhere...anytime