Basically POF wants me to sell myself to you in this section. Who am I? Why should you have the slightest interest in me? What makes me stand out from all the other men on this site that send you countless harrassing emails?

Ok...I'll play.

I'm a 34 year old man that feels and looks like I am in my 20's. I take care of myself mentally, physically, and emotionally. I don't do drugs and am not a heavy or constant drinker. I enjoy working out but I am not one of those gym rat type guys. I work hard and sometimes too hard. But I enjoy my career and I am good at it.

What I am looking for...

At first it is about getting to know each other. But eventually I want that person that I can go to the grocery store with to get dinner...and make everyone there that is single or in a boring relationship wish they had what me and that special woman have. I'm looking for that friend that turns into so much more.

Requirements...

Be cute. Be funny. Be in shape. Be able to be honest with yourself and anyone you meet about what you really want and expect. Be normal to a certain extent.

Things about me that you should know...

I am not looking to get married. I honestly do not believe in letting the state control my relationship status. I do not want to have any children. I am more than OK with you having kids. I just don't want any of my own for more than one reason that I will be happy to share with you as we get to know each other.

We'll see. We chat...we meet...we see if we like each other. If we do...we go from there.