I'm 39 and love to play softball and I also umpire girls softball which takes up most of my summer. I just started my own business and it's taking a lot of my time but I am willing to make time for the right person. I'm pretty laid back and like to have fun with my friends when I find the time. I don't like to hang out in bars I don't think that's the place to find a lady. I'm a country music fan but also listen to a lot of 80's music. If you need anymore info just drop me a line and ask I don't have anything to hide and will answer just about all your questions.

I'm not sure what my first date would be I'd like to think that we would decide what that would be. Ladies should have some say in where we are going to spend our evening. I'd like to think that it would be something that we are both interested in and would enjoying doing. I'm a movie and outside type of person. So my idea first date would be the both of us decide